Don't know what to do with myself...........

[Emmalina]

Hi guys. My story so far, came off the pill last october as me and my partner want to have a baby. First period was day 47, second was day 34 and this one, well i am still waiting and its now day 41. on days 26,27 and 28 i had massive period pains and 'period head' but after day 28 its all completely gone. i havent ovulated either. I know it can take your body a while to sort itself out but its not even showing any kind of pattern, i was so sure that after the day 34 one my next one would be the same or even better.

Is there anything i can do to help it get back in a cycle? i eat very healthy and exercise 5 days a week. should i tone the exercise down a bit and up my calories maybe? as sometimes i dont think i eat enough for what i do, i dont know, its so difficult to know. Its just really getting to me at the moment, i cant sleep properly, its constantly on my mind and i just feel broken. My friend on Valentines Day showed us all a picture of her present......... her baby scan pic. I was happy for her but also felt sad, my heart sank and my stomach fluttered. I want this so bad but I am so far from where i need to be.

xxxx

 

[KMG]

Hi really sorry I can't help but did not want to read and run!

I am sure someone will have some good advice for you!

Baby dust to you
xx

 

[Amber8]

Hi,

Have you tried taking agnus castus? My cycles are all messed up from my mc last year, didn't have period for 7 months. Since then I've had a 63 days cycle, a 40 day cycle & this one will be 42 if af shows her ugly head. I started taking AC during my 63 day cycle cos I just didn't think it was going to come & it turned up 2 weeks later.

xx

 

[peach]

sorry I cant help either but didnt want to read and run x

hugs x

 

[tweetyfoo]

What Amber said, a few of the girls on here have used Agnus Castus to get their cycles back on track x

 

[Emmalina]

thank you. i have heard about Agus Cactus but dont know much about it. Do you take it all through the month without and break and are there any side effects? xxxx

 

[Amber8]

You take it from cd1 up to ovulation & then stop until af arrives, it's a herbal tablet so it's totally harmless & I have never had any side affects I've not heard of anyone having any.

I didn't really want to have to take them but I thought if it helped my cycles then I have nothing to lose.

Xx

 

[Seb]

How long were u on the pill for? I was on it for 12yrs and when I came off I had 2-3 very light 'periods' but then nothin for about 8mths. I've said it on here b4 the pill is a curse, I'd never take it again. Don't panic though as I haven't heard anyone else who's body was as messed up as mine after it. Luckily I wasn't ttc when I initially came off it or I wudve been distraught. I'd def try agnus castus & take it from now rather than playing the waiting game. Hope ur cycles become regular soon hun, it's horrible not knowing wot ur body is doin.xx

 

[Emmalina]

I was on the pill for 10 years and like you, now think it was a curse! I wish I had never gone on it! Thanks for your reply hun, i am going to try everything i can to get them back on track again! xxxx

 

[fairycake]

Im a big believer of Agnus Castus, its the only thing that sorted out my cycles! thank god really although I forgot to take it last ycle and had a 77 day cycle! but learnt my lesson!! x