Oh hun I know how you feel, we have been trying for 4 years now without even a sniff of a bfp and it feels like everyone we know have got pregnant there first month trying in that time, many on there 2nd baby and one friend on there 3rd!
I just don't get how they have got pregnant so quickly and all we seem to get is one major problem after another.
I still cry so much and find it hard being around pregnant ladies, but we have to believe we will hold our baby one day we are just taking a longer journey to get there.
I can only echo what the other ladies have said, you should maybe look at getting some tests done on both you and your husband. Start with bloods and your oh SA and see what they say.