Disorganised and cant take it!

[x_PlaceboDanii]

It seems a petty thing to moan about but its really getting to me.

I was looking online earlier for some inspiration for the baby's room, when the baby is old enough to be on its own we're going back up into the attic room. I really want a lovely space for my baby to sleep in, but i think fiance has other ideas about that room staying as it is, with its boring beige walls, band posters and gaming consoles in there as it is the games room originally.

We've only got a cotbed, bouncer, and a moses basket so far. We've still got to get the wardrobe and the changing units!. I feel like im going a hundred miles an hour at the moment and with fiance being so tight with money wont even splash out on anything for the babies room, i know we're a little strapped for cash and we get by on what we can. I know ive got another 20 odd weeks until my due date but i just want everything to be perfect!...Is that too much to ask?

Im anxious about the birth even though thats a while away yet, im just so scared incase the nursery stays as it is with its boring walls and what not and then when the baby arrives its still not good enough for them to sleep in!.

Sometimes i debate whether making a baby here was the right thing to do..

 

[Rachel1509]

Aww hun, try not to stress about it all! Pregnancy can be very daunting and stressful, but keep as calm as you can so you can put things into perspective and work things out the best you can.
You have a bit of an advantage at the moment, because you're only 15 weeks, so you have plenty of time to get things organised! The time does fly, and I understand you want everything perfect, but it will all come right in the end so don't worry!

I can't even make a nursery for my baby, because we have to move out of this house by 5th January.. soo stressful with it been so close to Christmas. I've got to temporarily stay at my mums house and OH isn't welcome so he's got to sort out staying somewhere different away from me. Just hope this isn't until baby is born

Keep positive! Have a calm discussion with the OH about the decorating of the bedroom and see if you can both come up with a compromise or a plan to start it off

 

[x_PlaceboDanii]

Thanks hun! . Im trying to stay calm, ill probably spend the rest of the 20 odd weeks thinking of a theme haha!

 

[misscrazycooki]

The baby will no care what his room looks like or the house hunny. All they will care about is you and your partner looking after them loving them and cuddling them x

You could put a little money aside each week yourself and buy the things later once baby is here. Trust me on this one men are strange. My partner is the same, he wastes money on crap and I struggle to get our home sorted. I have no proper storage for our clothes let alone my sons but I manage. He is a happy boy has lots of toys, and things to play in. Which I have managed to get now and again. Most of it is 2nd hand stuff but its clean and doesn't look that used but he doesn't care or know the different x