deleted

[frankie247]

I would just ignore them, and move on with your life, afterall the last thing you need is the stress of these women even if they aren't talking about you, you should be free to enjoy your pregnancy.

As a side note, I lost my first baby at my 12 week scan and had to have a D and C, it was an awful time and I still havent gotten over the loss, especially when you think everything is ok. I'm ashamed to admit it now, but at the time a few friends (from my past) who were on my facebook at the time and pregnant I ended up deleting. It was because I felt so lost and empty and jealous and couldnt understand why it had happened to me. It was nothing personal against the girls (although the status from the women above just make me feel like they are a bit chavvy to be honest) it was that I just couldnt cope with seeing them so happy when i felt so terrible.

What then followed for the entire year was depression and weight gain, and i felt so horrible about myself. Evertime I saw a baby or a pram or a bump I would just breakdown.

Some of the girls, i've reconnecetd with and feel really happy for them now, as i said it's not quite the situation with your friend but just thought i'd let you know how i felt.

 

[Iriki]

OMG...how old are these people...12??
It's like reading about a playground disagreement over toys and dolls except it's about people instead.
From what you've written, they sound like a vile group and TBH I think the only thing to do is to disassociate yourself completely from them - I can't think of anything positive you could possibly get out of being friends / acquaintances with them???
Move on and leave them to it.

 

[suzzi]

make sure you have your setting to friends only so random people cant see your FB. i had problems with my OH brother who hates me, he was posting things on my scan picture and slagging me off on my kids FB wall so ive blocked him so i cant see the comments coz like you say it not good for LO he should know better hes 40 odd.

if i were you id take of these 2 sisters so nothing can be said, the problem with FB is that you can tell how a comment is meant as you cant read the emotion.

look after yourself and LO xxx

 

[BevG]

yikes, are they backwards? lol well sounds a bit lame to me. kinda makes me glad i dont have ppl like that on my fb or even have a bump buddy lol

 

[CustardCream]

Its very very sad she lost her baby but as I said to my 'friend' who didnt want to know about my pregnancy as she just believes she cant get pregnant. I told her I'm not never talking about my pregnancy around her, because if we always worried about what we talked about around people we'd never talk about ANYTHING. I recently found out my Mum had skin cancer (shes better now) but I'm not going to not talk about that in a room just incase someone in the room has lost someone to cancer... (yeah youd understand their pain) but you'd have to check with everyone you meet what has happend in thier lifes before you talk about things, do you understand what I'm saying or do I sound like a bitch? If I do its because I'm rubbish at writing things down because I know what I mean, so dont worry Tiff shes obviously nothing to you truely and your better off without her xx

 

[hopeandfaithxo]

It sucks she MCed (I have myself and used to get insanely jealous of those on my friends list that had babies), but that isn't your fault in the slightest. Maybe it's not you, she just deleted you cos it's all too sensitive for her, and maybe in a while she might re-add you. Idk. x

EDIT: Read more posts, I take that back haha