Could I be pregnant?

[MissNothing]

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[MrsS15]

Its really hard to tell. Are you having unprotected sex? If so, it's always possible! If you're due in about a week you might be too early to show up on a test yet but if you're having symptoms you could get a result. I'd wait a few days nearer to when you think your period is due then get a test. You can get sensitive ones for pretty cheap so worth investing in a few xx

 

[MissNothing]

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[MrsS15]

No problem and good luck. Let me know how you get on! Hope you get the result you want xx

 

[fairyprincess]

As you said those symptoms can also be a sign of AF arriving soon. It's so hard to tell! I agree with waiting a bit longer and then test. Hope you get the result you want x

 

[MissNothing]

Ok I've had two days, just in the morning, where I have two spots of very light blood, could this be the start, though my period never starts so scatered, or could this be implantation bleeding??

 

[fairyprincess]

Have you tested yet?

 

[MissNothing]

I'm rather nervous, I'm so excited if I am, and so scared at the same time, This wouldn't be a planned pregancy, but not a unwanted one, as me and my boyfriend have been friends for so long, and officially living together for now 3 months, we both work, and we both love each other, but I'm only 19, and he is only 22, both nearly one year older, so there is so much time ahead to start trying, I always wanted my first child by 22, but 3 years early if it's my time it's my time, I've always said that they come when it's time. My worries is not having a real stability. No I'll by a test today or tomorrow and test the next morning. wih me luck

 

[JD.Deedee]

You've always said they come when it's my time. Sorry love you're wrong, you're kind of putting yourself in that situation by having sex without protection. You don't just get a couple of "scares" when you're using contraceptives responsibly.. Yes it can happen on the odd occasion, but not multiple times.. Don't tell yourself that utter nonsense.. (And no I'm not saying you are even using contraceptives but you should if you don't want an unplanned pregnancy)

Take some responsibility for your actions and go and buy a pregnancy test, no one on the internet can tell whether you are pregnant or not.

Another thing, being friends for a long time doesn't equal making a mutual decision to start a family.
Grow up.

 

[MissNothing]

I dont express my self all that well, look we've been friends since as long as I can remeber, yet we have been seeing each other for over two years, We dont always have un proteccted sex, but I have had a few scares, because on more than one ocasion we didnt have protection, I was on the pill for 2 years, because of my irregular periods, but has a bad reaction to them about 6 months ago, I will be buying a test, and testing my self. I'm not a child as I live I have been working hard since I was 12, as a waitress, ( I'm half spanish half english), I wouldn't have had one single time of unproteccted sex if I wasn't sure or neither was he of our relationship, he is so excited of the fact he may become a father.

Since I was a child I have taken reponsability for my actions, un like people I know. I may be young, but I have my head in the right place, even though i express my self badly.

 

[fairyprincess]

Just buy some cheap tests and do one every few days until you get a BFP or AF arrives x

 

[JD.Deedee]

You sound like me 5 years ago.. Although, I was very cautious on the pregnancy part as I wanted to wait.


And it's fine to have a baby but start taking folic acid or some pre-natal vitamins, talk with your partner about creating stability and keeping it when you are pregnant and having a baby, start preparing for a possible pregnancy.
Not using protecting means you're not preventing, you might not be trying either but that's different than having scares. And be prepared that after you've had a baby, protection is something you will have to think about. In certain post natal scenarios not using any protection isn't always an option and in the first six weeks it's also about preventing possible infections, if he has an reaction it's good to think about it what won't in time. That too if the pill doesn't work for you and you would want more control over it all.

It hasn't got nothing to do with being able to express yourself or working since you were twelve.