Consultant Ap for Growth tomorrow any advice??

[LucyAnn]

Hello, well i am really scared got my consultant ap tomorrow for growth as indication baby has stopped growing for weeks (im behind by 5 weeks aparently)etc Dont know what to expect even MW says he may keep you in there & induce you or call you back, or a scan. so its one extreme to another. And I am just so Naive and feel pushed pillar to post

Seeing as you ladies know the situation was curious to see your imput of anything ideal I could or should ask while ive got this opportunity?
Like if he leaves me full term thats sound. But if more scans and inducing etc thats something I dont know much about.

Jus dont wanna be in the position where i leave the ap and think oh wish i had asked that etc.

I would love to know why growth has stopped if it has. Dont know whether they would know the answer. I have Rhesus Neg O Neg blood, had a car crash 2 months ago, and didnt know i was preg when i was so was still taking the pill, drinking very occasionly( Im not a piss head lol )and was on sleeping medication, and im like thinking is there any possibilty this is my fault etc?!? xxxxx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

No matter what it's not your fault
I don't know what questions to suggest just the basic, why, how and is it safe..
I hope you get all the answers you need xxx

 

[rachyryan]

Did you have an anomaly scan? Did they identify anything that may be an issue there? The only thing i can suggest is to take your mum with you. it's always good to have someone else there as if loads of information is being discussed and given you might not take it all in, and make sure you dont leave the appointment without knowing exactly what the plan for you and you lo are. Sorry if this isn't much use. Hope you get on ok, will be thinking of you x

 

[mum2b410]

Sorry hun, not sure what's best to ask.....I guess just be clear on what they are recommending and why and whether there is an alternative so that u can decide what u want to do?

Hope all goes well for you hun xx