bumping uglies...

[dina.marie]

lol sorry for the crude term!!! are u and ur fellas having relations at the mo?

me and OH had decided no sex in the 1st 3 months as we were a bit unsure about how safe it was after losing 2 bubs already. We've given in once or twice tho.

Just wondered if i was being the only witch depriving their OH!

 

[beanie]

sorry I shouldn't even be in here but I saw the title and had to read. I haven't heard that term for ages lol!!!!!

 

[Kerry&Rich]

Once again you do not fail to amuse me!!!

I am soo not doing anything with him for the first 3 months.. I am like th guy out of knocked up!! I am scared of hurting the little bean!!! lol xx

 

[Frog99]

You're missing out!
I've found my sex drive has increased quite a lot over the last 8wks and our sex life is better then ever!
For some reason everything feels much more intense at the moment - especially the big Ooooooo

I've had a few concerns over positions and whether the baby's getting squashed/poked etc but I don't think we're doing any damage!

 

[babyblonde]

We're not doing it til at least after our 12 week scan - and haven't given in once

 

[KikoDinoGirl]

Feel sick...feel fat...hmmmm not most sexiest time. We've had sex twice since we have known about baby and we agreed we both felt guilty so have been watching gorgeous Sean Bean in Sharpe instead

 

[Kerry&Rich]

Hmmm great choice!! He is a hotty!!

x

 

[Jaded Diamond]

At first we weren't going to, but we have caved a few times.
The last couple of times i noticed that everythings so much more intense.
We've been being careful like me being on top and stuff just so i'm in control of how deep he goes iykwim
The first time was early on and was unsuccessful, but the nearer to 12weeks we get the paranoia is dying down.
xx

 

[DaisieBee]

Didnt at all until about a week ago, hubby is so worried about hurting baby - have tried to explain he wont but to no avail. Not feeling particularly sexy either at the mo.
To make matters worse, we conceived on our wedding night so have pretty much got married, and not had sex since back from honeymoon

 

[Ms Perkins]

We're abstaining a) because of MW advice and MC before and b) cause I feel soooo sick and tired all the time and OH has just informed me that he went jogging this afternoon and got "Joggers c*ck!!!". Nice!!

But seriously once we hit the 12 weeks and I hopefully start to feel better. We're just enjoying cuddles at the mo

 

[dina.marie]

lol whats joggers cock???

 

[KikoDinoGirl]

LOL I presume it's something like joggers nipple, i.e rubbing against the clothing...blesss.

 

[doozer]

Ok, now Im worried...we have an...ahem...active...you know...

Well, we didnt find out til monday, and last week we were a bit rampant...(my hormones I think...cant get enough of him!)...then he was away for the weekend so by the time he had got over the shock on tues we had a bit of a moment again.

So should we hold off for the time being? I am 6 weeks gone, going for my first scan on the 24th. Thankfully Im at my mums house til monday so safe til then...but he's just so cute I cant help myself...although thats what got us into this situation...!

How can it damage the baby? I mean, not being too graphic...but unless we are talking 12 inch plus porn start stylee, surely its pretty well protected in there??

 

[buddabun]

We're abstaining a) because of MW advice and MC before and b) cause I feel soooo sick and tired all the time aWe're just enjoying cuddles at the mo

Ditto. The specialist we saw, AFTER I had miscarried started giving me all this advice: "make sure you don't lift anything heavy, don't strain too hard on the loo (?!?!?!?!), no sex". I asked her how we were supposed to conceive again if we didn't have sex and she said "Oh no, this is for when you fall pregnant again".

Like yeah, cheers, this is JUST what I want to hear having just lost our baby... pregnancy advice.

She said no sex and we're both not wanting to even try and risk it. About 1wk DPO I just didn't feel like it any more (my first major clue that I was up the duff) and we haven't done it since then. I'm sure we'll cave at some point (very carefully) but I'm just so paranoid of losing BuddaBean#3 that I don't dare yet!

 

[KikoDinoGirl]

Hmmm great choice!! He is a hotty!!

x

I recommend watching Sharpe as a fantastic way of enjoying your sex life without having sex