BOO HOO WHY IS EVERYONE PREGNANT!?

[*CLAIREBEAR*]

OR JUST HAD A BABY??
AT THE MOMENT THERE IS SO MANY PEOPLE I KNOW WHO ARE EITHER PREGANANT OR HAVE JUST HAD BABYS,IM SURE THERE HAS BEEN IN THE PAST TOO BUT I SEEM TO BE NOTICING THEM MORE NOW I WANT IT TO BE MY TURN!!
JUST BEEN TO SEE MY BF'S 1 DAY OLS NIECE,SHE IS BEAUTIFUL,I JUST FEEL FED UP NOW!!
I REALLY HOPE IT IS MY TURN SOON!
IVE GOT CM TODAY BUT THE OPK IS STILL NEGATIVE??
ANY SUGGESTIONS ON THIS?? IT SEEMS TO BE THE EGG WHITE KIND AND I AM SORT OF SPOT ON IN MY CYCLE NOW?
GOING TO DO SOME BDING ANYWAY!!

 

[CazH]

I know exactly how you feel, to be honest (feel quite bad) but I cannot stand seeing my niece and nephew they are 2mths and the other is 1. Its my hubbies brother family and they have everything big house good job. They are 34 and fell right when they wanted!!!

Everyone I ask that is pregnant or had a baby said "we fell straight away, so whats wrong with me???"

Good to have this site as dont feel like I have anyone to talk to about it.

Keep testing with your opk as sometimes it comes up a little later. When my ov pains started i tested then with a neg but then 4 tests later it came up pos. Good Luck Babe x

 

[*CLAIREBEAR*]

THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE REPLY CAZH,
I AM HAVING A BAD DAY TODAY!
I DO NOT KNOW WHAT OV PAINS FEEL LIKE,CAN YOU ADVISE??
I SOMETIMES GET A SORT OF PAIN THAT FEELS REALLY LOW IN MY STOMACH COULD THIS BE IT??
I HAVE NOT USED THE OPK KITS BEFORE THIS MONTH,I DO HAVE CM AND THE GOOD SORT SO AM A BIT PUZZLED WHY THE TEST IS STILL NEGATIVE?
IM STILL GOING TO DO THE BD THOUGH JUST IN CASE!!
ITS SEEMS SO LONG FROM ONE MONTH TO ANOTHER DOESN'T IT??
YOU GET YOUR HOPES UP HIGH WHEN YOU DO THE POAS TEST AND GET DOWN AGAIN WHEN YOU GET THE BFN!

OH WELL,IM GOING TO TRY AND STOP THINKING ABOUT IT NOW AS ITS DRIVING ME ABIT MAD!!
DO YOU RECKON STRESSNG AND THINKING ABOUT IT MAKES IT LESS LIKELY TO HAPPEN!?
JUST TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE WE GOT A NEW BED DELIVERED YESTERDAY,WE HAD BEEN WAITING FOR IT TO COME FOR A FORTNIGHT AND ITS THE WRONG ONE!!
ITS SO BONY AND UNCOMFORTABLE AND WE HAVE TO WAIT ANOTHER WEEK AND A HALF FOR THEM TO BRING MY BED!
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

 

[CazH]

You sound just like me. Was getting my hopes up this month and when I peed on the stick was hoping but nothing. Gutted is an understatement. Going in to mth 9 now!!

My ov pains are like period pains but where your ovaries are not down low up high. Sometimes you can feel them both sides sometimes just one side.

I dont get that EWCM, I get some but never the type like egg white or stringy stuff. Got a positive OPK on Clearblue Ov test off of EBAY.

Some months I dont stress others I do and i still aint pregnant! Dont use Lube if you want some get Pre Seed as sperm love that! How old are you Clairebear and how long you been trying??

 

[*CLAIREBEAR*]

hello thanks for the reply!!
its so nice to have someone else understand how you feel!
im 31 in april (getting on abit!!) we have not been TTC for long but i am just abit worried that i have left it abit late now im in my thirties.
thanks for the info on the ovulation pains,i do get them but never really associated it with ovulation so i guess its a good thing to get them?
this probably sounds a daft question but i have CM,the good kind (sorry TMI!) but the OPK's are still negative?? i have never used them before so may get a positive soon but just wondered if any one else had had this???
my and bf are still BD anyway!!!!

i hope you soon get your BFP cazh!!
sorry you never got it this month!!

lots of luck to you and babydust!!

claire x

ps how old are you????

 

[tracey 2]

il be honest i dont know a lot about ttc and thats prob why im here to pick up bit more,

but im sorry your finding it hard at the moment and i wish you all the best with getting your BFP soon hun, sending tons of baby dust

 

[*CLAIREBEAR*]

hi tracey!
nope i don't know much either!!
i think i have learned a good bit since i joined this forum which was only a couple of weeks or so ago!!
i have not got much of a clue about basal body temperature or charting etc but am going to look it up and try and get more clued up!

does anyone have any info on this sort of stuff??

so far me and my bf are just having plenty of nookie around the days i think/feel i am ovulating,i have just bought some of the OPK's but am getting negatives so far (although i have CM?) i am keeping a diary of my periods dates etc and any symptoms i am getting,does anyone have any other tips???
i still have not worked out how to post a ticker!!

 

[CazH]

Hi Clairebear

I am 28 nearly 29 so have that big 30 landmark hovering over me!!!!

We'll get there soon i'm sure so many bfp on here its got to be a good omen!!!!!

Taking break for 2 mths (well i'll try not to think about it tooooo much he he he)

 

[klee1988]

RANT....sorry

I know what you mean....an old friend of mine just got pregnant from an older man...a mistake...annoys me rghhhh why can people who want babies not have one this easily!!

My mums friends son got his gf pregnant...also unwanted...hes 15.

I feel all people who dont want babies just seem to get them while I'm dying to have one!!!!

Flip sake my fish is even pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[welshpolly]

I can relate
I really hope we all have our BFPs soon


Love Polly xxx