Bloody insensitive selfish oh !!!!!

[lewisca]

So pissed off with him !! As some of u know I interviewed for a temporary promotion covering mat leave last week. Well oh was very local on the lead upto it saying the job should go to me without interview as I passed interview last time etc . Well since I got the job all I've had is a cuddle and a well done !!! No card nothing !! Our friend came round next day with a card and a pressie thought it might just b because we have been together the whole time since but no. I've been to work today he has been out brought our niece a birthday card and still no card from my kids or him ! He then goes on to say how rude it was of one of my friends at work to not have said well done !!!! And the cherry on the cake he is going golf tomorrow and when I get home from work on thurs night he is going to the pub !!! Sorry for the rant just needed to get it off my chest !!! Xxxx

 

[BevG]

he gave you a cuddle and said well done. as far as hes concerned that was congratulating you enough lol. men huh

 

[littlemuffin]

They just don't have a clue.

 

[BevG]

my oh, his dad and his sisters oh are all going to play golf tomorrow as theyre all off work on holiday...because his sister just had a baby 3 days ago, she got out of hospital yesterday! so im going to hers to keep her and the new baby company and help her out a bit if needed since her oh will be off playing golf.

 

[lewisca]

Oh my god Bev men !!!!! They just so don't get it !!! It's nice b reminded that I'm not the only one with a crap oh !!! Lol xx

 

[BevG]

lol its his first holidayd day today and i waited til half 12 then had to go out n post things, go to baby massage and go have a coffee with the other mums then drive half an hour to pick up preloved cloth nappies. i got home and noone was here.
there was a not on my computer saying he had got bored waiting so hed gone to visit his dad etc, love xxx
i then proceeded to do the dishes and hoover and sort out the nappies id bought and fold laundry. wonder how he got bored with all those jobs he could have been doing. my living room carpet was so hairy i could of made another dog!
he came home at about 7 and wanted the baby cos he'd missed her. no wonder she wont settle for him or even take a bottle off him lol, makes me laugh cos it bothers him that shes clingy to me and cries at him often

 

[lewisca]

Cant believe he said he was bored !!! Good on Tilly for showing daddy who does the most !! My oh is good with the kids has been with them all day today but he still left me the bottles to make !! While he went for a run !!! Think he knows something is up cos he is making me a coffee !! Know it sounds silly getting worked up over a card but he is normally the first one to say we need to get a card etc !! And he was so vocal about how wrong he thought it was I had to interview again for a job I had already done once !! Xxx

 

[BevG]

lol its Alyssa but yeah she does show him who looks after her the most, shes the most happy contented lil thing too and has smiles for everyone but when shes tired or hungry or cranky she wants me only. men arent that emotional is all hun, im not phased by it anymore cos theyre all like that to a degree, emotionally dense.

 

[lewisca]

Sorry Bev !! I get confused with names !!! Blonde moment !! Teach me to try and catch up with everything in one go !!! Your right the r emotionally dense !! Although do love getting one up on oh when kids want me over him !! Xxx

 

[BevG]

lol its hard to keep up with names on here, like right now i know your carey cos i saw the name thread and thought that was such a lovely unusual name but ask me in a couple of days and i will have forgotton it

 

[lewisca]

Thanks Bev I like it cos it's unusual although hardly anyone gets it right !! Lol xxx