blighted ovium

[aussiestorm]

i was just reading on the net bout this and it showed me scans of a normal pg and a blighted ovium one and i am going to mc again...bf just told me not to get emotional about something that hasnt happened yet and wait to see what the doctor says but i know what i seen on the screen and i know that at 9 wks i should of seen a bean...i am right arent i??
i am siting here alone crying and he doesnt understand what it is like...so now i wait for my body to reject the sac itself and if it doesnt i have to go and get another d&c done.....i feel so horrible right now and i am sorry to bring you all down.......

good luck to you all

tina

 

[Steelgoddess]

Sorry im a bit confused, have they told you you have a blighted ovum?

I had a blighted Ovum last year I know how you feel and am sorry if that is the case...

 

[aussiestorm]

no i am waiting to see the dr had scan today and there was a sac there with a very small little pole that wat it looked like ....i am 9 wks and no baby or heart beat i mite be jumping the gun here but i am so certain that i am going to m/c again...its hard to be positive wen you dont see a baby on the scan...she said that the dr mite want to re do the scan in a couple of weeks or send me to a obstertrician...i just upset sorry to confuse u...i have been having brown spotting as well is that a sign as well?

 

[Steelgoddess]

Brown spotting could be MC but you cant be sure as you canhave that during pregnancy... the only other thing is that you could be preg but its very early...

x

 

[aussiestorm]

yeah i have been told that as well but my last lmp was 14th sept....and have short cycles of 19 days..i just dont know what to do thats all i feel so upset...i am so hoping it is just pregnancy hormones making me upset and worrying over nothing,,,it is still hard

 

[Anna23]

i strongly advise you get a internal scan done, like steelgoddes said it could be that your earlier on than you thought

 

[aussiestorm]

well i got a emergency call from the drs today i am going there in the morning to see wat he wants but i am sure i know..

 

[Trudyscrumptious76]

Oh hun. ing its not bad news.

 

[aussiestorm]

well went to the doctors he is sending me to gyno at hospital...going there soon, the scan results were that the sac was 9 wks 2 days which is right for my dates and there was a baby in there and said it only measured 3mm which is 6 wks and 1 day..no heart beat and they are calling it a missed abortion or a blighted ovum... so i am going to go to the hospital and tell them i want a internal scan done cause if baby is only 6 wks the abdominal scan would not of picked up much....i am trying to be positive here and think that the baby is just small...i said that to the doctor and he said but the sac is 9 wks so the baby stopped growing at 6 wks and i will most likely m/c and rather get a d&c done now to prevent anything going wrong...but i am stuborn lol and i think it might be a long shot to tell them that i want to wait for a few more weeks and if i start bleeding or m/c then i will deal with it then but i dont think it is right to get a d & c done just yet...

tina

 

[Trudyscrumptious76]

Oh hun, I don't know what to say. I hope whatever happens worlks out for the best. I'm here if you need someone to talk to PM me anytime.

 

[Morganuk]

I have just suffered this and have been told ill need a DNC.
Well I have to go back for one more scan but I know I have as baby would show at ten weeks.

Hope your okay hun

 

[aussiestorm]

well i had my scan yesterday and not much has changed so i am booked in for dnc tomorrow friday. they found blood clots around the sac and said i would start to m/c soon as well so i decided to get dnc done just in case i started bleeding at work so i am devistated.

hope everyone else is going well

take care
tina

 

[VickiH]

Be thinking of you hun x

 

[Tina & Gabs]

I'm so sorry

 

[HannahD]

Oh sweetheart, i'm so sorry to read this

I've just had this too and it's awful to see it on the scan. I was 6w2d when I had my scan and all they could see was the sac but nothing in it. They reckoned i'd got my dates wrong but I knew in my heart this wasn't really true and that it was all over for us.
I'm just going through my m/c at the moment and I feel awful. I keep trying to rationalise it in my head that something was wrong but inside your heart's breaking.

I hope all goes well at the hospital for you. Take good care of yourself.

xxxx