Benjamin James Daley 4-6-14

Daley

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Thought it was about time I did my announcement.

During the weekend of the 2/3rd I had reduced movements, so my midwife spoke to my consultant and due to being high risk they called me in for an emergency scan. I had a registrar who scanned me and said everything was fine and booked me to come back in a week. My consultant looked over her results and decided he wanted to check one of the measurements she had taken. Good job he did, consultant discovered he was showing signs of severe anaemia, have me a steroid injection, sent me home for my bits and admitted me that night at 34+1 for induction.

Tue afternoon I was moved to induction and the 1st pessary inserted. They kept emphasising the fact that due to my gestation induction would take days if it even worked and I would probably end up with a csection. At 9pm they checked said my cervix had lowered slightly and that I was in for the long haul. They inserted the next pessary and I was having some tightenings every 5 minutes. I sent my partner and mum (who paid 1300 to fly home from hol to be with me) home to get some sleep.

My contractions became more regular and lasting longer, I was starting to have to really breath through them.

4am they checked again, said I was 1-2cm that they could possibly break my waters but wanted to wait until I had been moved to delivery but there was no beds free at the moment. Again I was told not to worry as I'd be ages yet.

The next few hours felt like days, I was having contractions every 2/3 mins lasting a while. I go really quiet when I'm in pain so I don't think the midwives took me too seriously. I asked for gas and air and was told I couldn't have any on induction, I had to wait until I was on delivery. They gave me two paracetamol.

11am came and I said to my mum/partner if I was only 2/3cm I wanted an epidural as I hadn't slept in 48hrs and I couldn't cope anymore. My mum asked them to examine me, I wish I could have taken a picture of her face. I was 8 1/2cm. All panic stations broke loose and I was suddenly rushed to delivery.

Things slowed a bit then as I asked for some stronger pain killers. Before I knew it I was 10cm and time to push. I refused to push until the paediatric team arrived.

Benjamin James was born at 4.11pm, he was barely breathing so was rushed off to neonatal. I didn't get to see him for 3 hours as they struggled to stabilise him and get lines in him. In his 1st 48hours of line he had 3 full blood transfusions and a platelet transfusion. The hardest thing I've ever had to watch, took 2 nurses 9 hours to manually pump in and take out his blood.

Anyway, he spent just under a week in intensive care before we were reunited together in transitional care. 10 days later we were allowed home.

He is gorgeous and such a little fighter. He weighed 5lb 15 1/2oz and is 6lb 1oz. His platelets are still low so have had a blood test today. Waiting for his results to come back, if they have dropped then its back the hospital for another transfusion.

Keep everything crossed girls xxx

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so cute! thats some story to tell him when hes older!
 
Congratulations :) I've been following on facebook and you both really are amazing! He's sooooo beautiful x
 
So pleased for you Daley, massive congratulations to you! Hope Ben's blood results are ok and you don't have to go back too much! Xxxx
 
Hes gorgeous. I now know how crappy it feels to be stuck in hospital and be away from your little man. But massive congratulations! You did him proud :) x
 
lovely little boy! glad he's on the mend now - hope his latest blood tests are ok. congrats :)
 
He is an amazing little man. You both did and continue doing so well. He makes me so broody and want to hold my own boy.
 
Congratulations and well done Daley! Hope his latest blood tests are ok! Xx
 
Congrats Daley he is beautiful. Just wanted to say too thanks for ur info on anti d injection I had it done today and like u said it really wasn't bad at all! Hope all is ok with his blood test and u now get to enjoy ur little boy :) xx
 
I've already said it but he's a total beaut and what a fantastic weight Daley! You must be so proud of him, and yourself!! Mwah, big congrats again xx
 
He's gorgeous, well done. Fingers crossed for you both that his results come back good and you can stay home xx
 
Thank you, his results have come back - they are still low but are on the increase thankfully x
 
Fab story Daley - brilliant news that his platelets are rising! Congratulations Hun - he's gorgeous xx
 
Aww Daley he's such a cutie , what an ordeal u both have had , glad he's on the mend and massive congrats xx
 
Aw he looks lovely Daley :)

Glad his platelets r rising. Huge congratz xxx
 
Congratulations! Glad he's on the mend. So lucky the consultant double checked x
 

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