Being overprotective

[futuremum]

I know it is bad but i am too much overprotective with Thomas. i only see him a few hours a day as i work full time so in the week end i like being with him. If people want to hold him i always play with him even if he is in someone else arms and i am always checking on him. I had a bit of an "argument" with my mil because when he wants to sleep she still wants to talk to him because she does not see him often but then he gets overtired and he is not a happy baby. My oh sister came with her new boyfriend, he hold thomas and i hated it, i could not stand another man than his dad holding him ( i know it sounds very stupid)

i always make sure his food is super smooth, puts loads of suncream even if it is not very sunny, always make sure he has a hat. i feel a bit stupid but i really want the best for him. I am trying my best not to show it in front of people because i am a bit ashamed of it.

Hopefully this will calm down with time

 

[lauramumof2]

I wouldnt worry about it. When all these other people go home you are the one left with him. There is nothing wrong with wanting the best and certainly nothing wrong with showing it. You know whats best and you can never have enough suncream on
People who wake babies up when they are sleeping annoy me as they arent thinking of the mum who will be left with a grump.

Carry on!

 

[Duds]

Theres nothing wrong with caring hun and thats all you are doing. your looking out for your baby and thats fine.
I feel the same as you sometimes and I think a few people think I fuss to much over Aimee.
As for the sleeping thing i'd be furious! I dont let anything get in the way of her sleeping as she is a nightmare if she doesnt get her nap. I am completley obsessed about it.


You do what you feel is best, sod everyone else
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