Beginning to get worried...

[kristenann]

While my cycles are very steady and i have a good lateral phase i am begining to wory about not conceiving at all, i have been ttc 4 months. Now on no5..
First 2 months admittidly i was very new to it all nieve and probably tried wrong times based on cycle i now know from bbt.
Cycle 3 i feel we did it too much and there was hardly any sperm after (from what i noticed anyway to point where i even asked did you go .. sorry tmi!!) But timing good -2 and -1 ovulation
Cycle 4 we did smep but just did it every other day no in a row stuff as i have 5/6 day LH surges.. another fail. But i took pregnacare this month and my cm was awful! Never been so bad so im kinda blaming that..
With cycle 5 and hubby being on wellman and seeing strong improvements im worried what will happen of this one fails and if my cm gets better again/ returns to normal.. what do i blame then?
I honest went into this ttc malarky really convinced it would just happen, so nieve.

 

[Nikkibiscuit]

Try not to worry 5 months really isn't long especially if you are fresh off birth control. There are plenty of us on here at 12 months or more. Many with no specific diagnosis for no BFP. Sometimes it just can take time.

Good luck x

 

[Alexis2017]

Yeah I agree witj what Nikki said. I have been trying proper for 17 months and off birth control for 4 years and been for all the tests and been refered to fertility clinic and had further tests and all normal , also DH had SA done and all normal. Trust me I wouldn't worry till it was over 1 year trying. I worried like you at that point but I also had a bit feeling the whole time I would struggle...amd here I am struggling but for no apparent reason they can find. Wishing you a smoother journey and welcome to the forum !