Been to A&E :(

[Toonlass]

Well i have had a stiff neck, really painfull, a cracking headache for 2 days now but at lunch time i came out in a non blanching rash on my erm.....left booby (she's called Tina ) i rang the NHS helpline and they sent me off to hospital. I had blood tests, was prodded and poked all over as they feared i had meningitus

Turns out i am suffering from tension headaches brought on by acute stress....NICE!! Oh and they think i have gaul stones too, gott go for a scan when an appointment comes through. Don't even know what they are to be honest, i'll cross that bridge if i have them.

The doc prescribed a bath as deep as it can go and as hot as i can stand with plenty of bubbles, a massage and a break from the kids. Aye right!! Get real Mr! When has a mother of 3 got time to soak in a bath, and AND, what am i supposed to do with my children, lock them in a broom closet for a day so i can get a break? Whenever i get a rare break from my ankle biters i clean and do ironing

We get back from the hospital and the daddy pisses straight off to the pub leaving me the kids to deal with and the house to straighten out, awesome stuff eh?!?

Any who, thats a ickle update on moi xx

 

[vixforever]

We get back from the hospital and the daddy pisses straight off to the pub leaving me the kids to deal with and the house to straighten out, awesome stuff eh?!?

What an ARSE HOLE

Sounds like a nightmare!

 

[Lilelephant]

Aw toon sorry u aren't well! Glad it isn't meningitis! Big hugs!

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

Oh poor you! Is there any way you can get your bath when the babies are sleeping? I know I can't because the bath running would wake Rosie up!

Some sort of relaxation is in order for you I think, I really hope the headaches go away and you manage to get some free time at some point somehow xx

 

[Sam's Mum]

I'd lock him in a broom cupboard until he agrees to look after them for a day so you can get wrinkly in the bath

Glad it's not meningitis, but hope you do get some time to rest a bit soon

And at Tina

 

[Toonlass]

Thanks lasses

I tend to wake up jacob when i have a bath or shower. Its no good when i'm in on my own coz as soon as i slide my hippo ass into the warm bubbly water and start to relax, one of them will wake up, sods law innit. When knob heed is in i sometimes dare to bathe but even then i end up getting out to sort the kids out coz he is incapable of such a simple task. Can you tell he is really in the bad books lol xx

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

I reckon Ive missed something - is he back in the hoose then? x

 

[Toonlass]

Well he is but he isn't but he is .......... bleurgh its a mess!!

Aye lynn, left is Tina, right is Trudy, just the way its always been. My lady garden is called Madge, madge fadge

I need to at andy, then grow a pair and tell him how it is. I get lonely and think i want him but when he's here i just want him to pee off. I'm so confuzzled xx

 

[keljordan]

I have gall stones Hun and mine sometimes blocks my ducts, I was supposed to have them removed but fell preggers IRS just a simple op, they can be quite uncomfortable at times and I sometimes get a really bad pain in my right shoulder, your supposed to avoid spicy foods and all that x

 

[Princess81]

Omg toon that must have been so scary for u so glad it's not meningitis tho! That dick of a fella needs a serious kick in the arse how can he not see that things have got to the stage where it's making u ill?
What a nob!!!!!! I dunno what to suggest, can he not pay for all 3 to be shipped of to a minder for the day so u can relax if he's incapable of looking after them himself? Sod the housework for a couple days toon, u need some serious tlc. Take care chicky xxx

 

[keljordan]

That's meant to say "it's" not IRS!!!! Lol stupid i phone !!!

 

[Toonlass]

The doc also said i was dehidrated, dunno how like, i drink shed loads of water.

Oh so the stones can cause pain in other areas?? He was just having a prod and poke on the right side of my belly and i swear i nearly shot off the bed, i hadn't even noticed that there was an issue until then.

We have a minder princess, Jacob used to go when i was at work and he still goes one day a week to keep in touch with her for when my mat leave finishes. Lucas started going as well last week so he can get used to her before he has to go full time but because its the holidays i am left with kieran. He's 8 and harder work/more annoying (lol) than the 2 little ones put together!! I pray for sunny weather so the little git can play out!! xx

 

[Princess81]

Awwwwww u know I admire u so much for how well u cope?? I'd have had a breakdown can u not send the littleuns to the minder together for one day and get Kieran to go to a mates?? I already plan on banishing any future kids of school age to summer scheme

 

[Toonlass]

Kieran needs army camp not summer school, he's a little tear away! If you tell him off he just utters,i don't care, over and over again. The other day i was trying to explain something to him and i said kieran listen, and he just kept saying i dont care. I shouted oi listen to me now and he screamed in my face shouting NOOOOOO!! He was such a good lad till he went into year 3 at school. There are times when i could slap him silly but i don't do the smacking thing.

I've rang my minder and she is having the two babies on tuesday, lets pray for sunshine and i can send kieran off out to play. I'll even give him a whole pound for sweets if he doesn't badger me

 

[karenandbump]

Oh hon, poor u! And ur OH needs a proper slap!! U need some space for u to chill out before it even gets to the stage ur at now let alone when a doc is telling u that u have acute stress!! xxx

 

[Mamafy]

Awww hun you poor thing Give him a good kick up the arse, going to the pub when you've just left hospital

You take it easy sweetie, nice pamering day Tuesday, not the bloody housework

 

[amyjayne77]

When your oh is home can't you just F@@K off out and have a bit of 'me time' without giving him an option to object, like just do one out of there for a few hours. He'd have to cope whether he liked it or not!

 

[Rowesb]

toon, how are you feeling today?
Your OH really needs to get a grip

 

[Toonlass]

Hey chick, still feel as rough as goats knees today. The babies are being as good as gold but kieran is already pushing my buttons xx

 

[karenandbump]

Hey hon, can OH give u a break at all today or this eve? xxx