Mine is truly disgusting to look at! Its really saggy and if I tense my stomach it looks even worse. Kate is 10 months old now so I dont see it getting any better. I am going to ask (seriously) for a tummy tuck when I am finished having babies. I did put on a lot of weight (4 stone) and Kate was 9lb which is pretty big. I feel like I have been unlucky with the skin stretching thing though. I have lost all that weight now too and TBH it looks worse the more I lose - maybe I should get really fat then, eh?! At least you are not alone!