Hi em! Sorry to hear about your 2 little ones much have been scary. Glad they're both okay though.
That's awful that they did that without your permission you'd hope people in a profession like that would understand it takes alot longer than a few weeks or months to get over it even if you have a new baby or still have a baby. It's hard because you still feel their loss because they were your baby just as much as they children you still have are too.
I have pictures of zara by my side of the bed. Ive got 3 photos and two scan pictures. Me and my oh talked the other day and he admitted he was still struggling but not showing it either. I think we both felt that we didn't want to upset the other by mentioning how were feeling.
I'll be honest last night whilst lying in bed it really hit me that she's never coming back, of think somewhere in my head I believed I could do something or I would just wake up and it was an awful dream. I know it sounds stupid because at times I thought I had accepted it bit I don't think i did until last night. Ive been on the brink of tears all day thinking of her and the flash backs of them telling us there was nothing they could do are haunting me. I do feel broken inside but trying to hold it together for my sons sake.
I have to say the worst thing for me at the moment is no matter what I do I'm constantly reminded. There's twins everywhere I look. My sons new school, when I walk down the street, articles of Facebook. It feels like serious salt in the wounds and seeing what I'll never get to experience again and what lily will miss out on too.
Sorry for the essay, here's the only place that I feel will listen to me and understand without hurting them too xxx