Bad day :'(

[Kerrieanne]

I'm having trouble coping at work at the moment.

I am experiencing a slight case of bullying from my boss and colleague who has done my job for a good 30yrs plus.

The old hag always informs my boss when I make a mistake and the two of them work together and go behind my back and look through my work. These mistakes relate to the past 18mths. Thing is anybody would make mistakes if you had been struggling with infertility for years and experienced a loss not to mention all the drugs i've had to take...the head hasn't exactly been clear!! On top of all that i have had at least 400 cases to deal with at work (the average is 250-300 Max)!!

Now i have been given more work on top of what i already have and i just broke down. I have a lazy boss who is not as busy as me, has time to make personal phone calls all the time and he gives me more work!! ahhhhhh!!

I just went for a stroll for an hour to calm down as i just can't stop crying. Stupid hormones.

I don't want to stress out little chip too much so im back in the office working at my own pace.

Sorry for the rant, it helps to get it all out. Roll on 5pm :'(

 

[Olive]

Ah hun Is there someone at work you can speak to? xx

 

[BabyBrain]

Oh hun that stinks makes you wonder how they will cope when you aren't there. You never know it might highlight the fact that they both are expendable.
Try not to get yourself worked up. Just do what you can do. Write down everything that concerns you when it happens, that's good therapy in itself. Take time out if you need it, explain to HR if you can.

Hugs to you hunny and a poke in the eye to the pair of them xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[jojo_2012]

Get signed off with stress, let some other sod take on the extra 150 or so cases you're doing. I'm signed off with stress myself and am surprised how easy it was. I could look back and think of how it looks to other people and all the extra work they have to do, but at the end of the day your own health and happiness comes first.

 

[Esperanza84]

I'm so sorry hun! You should talk to someone about this at your work or your doctor. It shouldn't be neccesary for you to go through this!

xx

 

[Kerrieanne]

Thank you girls. (nearly 5pm)

That's it now, as soon as the water works started this morning i haven't been able to stop. Had a chat with one of my girlfriends and when she checked up on me in the afternoon to see how i was and her concern overwhelmed me and i cried again! Hope I don't cry in front of hubby tonight, don't want to worry him but i have a feeling i can't control the waterworks at the moment.

I have emailed my bosses manager who is a nice man and no one here has a bad word to say about him. I've written a list of things to say when he see's me. Something has to be done before i QUIT.

BTW this is'nt the first time this has happened ive put up with this for too long now :'(

I was so close to nearly Quitting today!

 

[TORino]

Aw hun. hope you feel better soon x

 

[x_larlybelle_x]

Aw hugs for u hun. It's awful to be made to feel like that. Hope somethin improves or as the other ladies have said, get signed off xx take care of urself and chippette xx

 

[LoopyLouize]

Oh no hun I am sorry your boss is being so shitty with you. I think some people are just born to be arseholes! Hope your bosses boss understands and sets them all straight.

Don't quit! Dont let the *******s win

Keep smiling chick x

 

[Applecider]

Stay strong Hun hope u ok xx

 

[Nurse 26]

aww, hun, that sounds horrible there must be someone else you can go to, as the others say if it gets to much you can always get signed off to get some much needed stress relief.

xx