Awaitng THE talk!!
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Eeek MrsM, how did the talk go??? When we're "practicing" (*wink wink*) he's mentioned bringing it forward but when he's stressed out about something he's mentioned postponing a few months! Like Mum2Many i've started ignoring him as it would only put me on an emotional rollercoaster of false hopes and deep low's. Hope your chat was a positive one
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Men just don't have a clue about how emotional these decisions are. Since my ectopic pregnancy he said no, then he went out and bought me prenatal vitamins, then he started making jokes about knocking me up, then he said no, then he insisted on BD without protection then he said no. I'm sat here like 
... I can't handle this particular rollercoaster, so I'm just going to assume he means yes, but doesn't want to verbalise it or make a firm decision! LOL
I hope your talk went OK hun. I'm praying he hasn't changed his mind on you.
... I can't handle this particular rollercoaster, so I'm just going to assume he means yes, but doesn't want to verbalise it or make a firm decision! LOLI hope your talk went OK hun. I'm praying he hasn't changed his mind on you.
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Haha! Mum2Many, sounds very familiar. *sigh*
They're so clueless re our emotions. They dont realise that this topic and anticipation fills our heads every second of every day!! We were meant to start in May but unfortunately had to postpone and every now and then i get upset and have a cry about the delay and he'll say stuff like 'whats the point in crying? it will happen ONE day. Just not sure exactly when. It's not like it's never happening' ARGH! clueless! I was meant to have my coil out in March, Im meant to be tracking my cycles as we speak, then get going in May! the delay is hard
And the hardest part is I have no clue which month it'll be! It all depends on when the house is finished and how our new business goes. I keep telling him there is never going to be a perfect time and that we should just go for it LOL. But i'm the spontaneous one and he's the sensible one... lol thanks for reading my ramble.
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They're so clueless re our emotions. They dont realise that this topic and anticipation fills our heads every second of every day!! We were meant to start in May but unfortunately had to postpone and every now and then i get upset and have a cry about the delay and he'll say stuff like 'whats the point in crying? it will happen ONE day. Just not sure exactly when. It's not like it's never happening' ARGH! clueless! I was meant to have my coil out in March, Im meant to be tracking my cycles as we speak, then get going in May! the delay is hard
And the hardest part is I have no clue which month it'll be! It all depends on when the house is finished and how our new business goes. I keep telling him there is never going to be a perfect time and that we should just go for it LOL. But i'm the spontaneous one and he's the sensible one... lol thanks for reading my ramble.
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We didn't have it! Ha ha! I fell asleep! I'm gonna make him discuss it tonight. If he is having doubts I would rather know, as I'd hate to have a baby that he didn't really want cos that could lead to all sorts of problems! I'll let you know asap! LoL!
Phew, we're on the same page! He just wants to wait until after our hols, so it's just a month delay. I'm ok with that. And tbh, I think he'll forget everything he said when we're on holiday! Ha ha! Just gives me an extra month to lose an extra half a stone!
We travel home on June 2nd so it's not like we're putting it back much. A couple of weeks really. I think AF will be due around 5th June, so I'm not upset about it at all. I'm quite happy. He wants another baby as much as me so that's the main thing.
