charlie and ethan are 18 months apart, is a bigger age gap than the oe between your two but i doubt it will be much diffrent.
if you have two good babies then its not much harder than having one i found.
i needed a double buggy and that was it, by the time ethan was born, charlie was on cows milk (from 12 months old) so i only had to make up one batch of bottles a day. 2 lots of nappie changes mind you! lol
dinner time asnt a prob, charlie would pretty much eat what we ate so i didnt have to do anything speacil for her.
i had got her in to a bed with a bed guard by then too, so i only had one cot.
i know the age gap is soing to be smaller, but i think you will do a great job
xx