ARRRAGGGHHHHHHHH - Still no Ov!!!! And its CD 32!!

[Little miss pink]

Its cycle day 26 and i still have had no thermal shift AGAIN!!! Most people have nearly completed a full cycle by this point and i still haven't Ovulatued yet I HATE MY BODY!!!!!!!!!!

We've BD'd every night while i've had ov symptoms but now they've gone and i've no thermal shift either. How am i supposed to conceive with my body playing silly buggers all the time

ARRGGHH

Bex

Sorry everyone .......... I know I'm just feeling sorry for myself now.

Updated/Edited - now on CD 32

 

[jenna]

 

[Little miss pink]

Thanks Jenna I really appreciate you even bothing to post - Watching someone whinge in their first month of trying must be so frustrating for you particulally after all you've been through and you still take the time to post your support!!!
So thank you!!

I know you have longish cycles to - how do you go about timeing BD'ing right because i feel like we've just wasted our time.


Bex

 

[jenna]

well i used to be worried when i first started ttc hun i know i needed loads of support and even when my first AF came i was devistated.

At first my cycles were 28days then gradually got a couple of days longer every month, no there stuck on 41 days so i guess it was just messed up after coming off the pill. Dont see it as wasteing your time. BD'ing is suposed to be fun!!! Try to relax and make it enjoyable. You'll find the more fun it is the more you'll do it and the more likely you;ll do it at the right time Or just do it every other day and your bound to get it right. hope that helped.

 

[muppetmummy]

Don't worry about moaning. I think the first cycle of ttc is the worst cos you don't know what to expect. I'm finding it gets easier each time.
It's really frustrating when you don't know if you've even ov'ed. I hope it happens for you soon

 

[BabyDreams]

Little miss pink,
I just looked at your chart. Technically, from just your temps, you could have OV on CD18.
Have you put your chart on the chart stalkers thread? They would be able to scrutinize it more, maybe.
Plus, I recommend you do OPKs ... that'll help set your mind at ease. Don't worry to much, though...you MAY have oved!

 

[skairdykat]

I've never charted so don't really know about the temps but do you think you may have OV'd around day 20 when you had the CM?

 

[Little miss pink]

I really felt like i was or was about too from my body but when you ovulate your temperature increases so much so you can see a significant shift in your charts and my temperatures haven't shifted i had one day of high temp but that was the morning after we'd been out drinking (which raises your temp to) so i put it down to that.

I've heard that sometimes your body gears up for ovulation so you get all the signs, like i did, but then it doesn't happen resulting in an anovulatory cycle (Think thats wrong spelling ) where you don't ovulate at all.

If i don't Ov this cycle i am going to think about going to the docs because this will be my second cycle out of three where i've been charting with no ovulation.

oh well I'll just keep everything crossed i Ov over the weekend!!!

Thanks for the all support peeps! Have a good weekend!

Bex

 

[Little miss pink]

CD 29 ands still no OV!!



I'm praying i don't have another anovulatory cycle. That would be two in a row I know the odd one is not goo but two is row!!! If i do could this mean I'm not fertile??

Bex

 

[muppetmummy]

Have you recently stopped taking any hormonal contraception? That can affect ovulation. I wouldn't worry too much yet hun, next cycle might be completely different

ETA: I;ve just looked at your charts on Fertility Friend and it looks like you ov'ed in April. You've had a lot happening in the past couple months with getting married and starting to ttc, maybe the excitement/stress of it all has affected your cycle? I hope they settle down soon.

 

[Little miss pink]

Thanks MM thats a good point i really hope your right

I put my last cycle down to the stres of the wedding but i am so blissed out this cycle i cannot use that excuse.

I've been off the pill and hormones for around 4 years but i had the coil until April/May this year so my cycles shouldn't be affected but who knows with the human body!!

Hows things going for you MM.


Bex

 

[muppetmummy]

I'm just waiting for af to arrive now. I feel like she's coming but I don't know when. My first cycle was 31 days and the second 26 days.
I had the mirena coil removed in may, and I think my bodys' still trying to get back to normal. Hopefully we both won't have to wait too much longer

 

[Little miss pink]

HI MM

Yeah fingers crossed for us both!!


I had a weird dip in my temps a couple of days ago which is really confusing me. When i say dip i mean Temperature DIVE . It just plumeted for one day and i had been drinking the night before which usually increases temperature. I'm hoping its down to sleeping with my mouth open or being cold (as i was sleeping on the floor on an air bed so i was freezing and had a disturbed sleep). If i'm right for all these reasons it means i might have ov'd on CD 26 but its just the dip delaying my coverlines. Thats what I'm praying anyway!



I hope AF stays away for you but i have a feeling I have pleanty more visits from her to come yet

Bex

 

[muppetmummy]

Sounds like sleeping on the air bed could be to blame for the dip. Chances are you did ov after all

 

[Little miss pink]

Serves me right for getting my hopes up I'd ovulated - My blooming temps are low again today so still no ovulation detected and i'm on CD 30

This is so frustrating - If i were normal I'd of had a full cycle by now but here i am still holding out for Ovulation.

I wonder if i'm doing something wrong in my lifestyle to cause my body to be so out of sync.



Bex

 

[Little miss pink]

Cd32 and still no lines - defo no testing needed this month i cannot even ovulate

 

[Melly+2]

 

[muppetmummy]

Your chart might be completely different next month hun

 

[A&J]

 

[katyk]

some people don't get on with temping, maybe u did ov and u just don't suit temping so your temps aren't meaning a lot. I can't temp because I'm, an insomniac and disturbed sleep effects the temps, lots of other things do too.

So maybe get the ov tests for next month n try them instead?