Apparently i dont look pregnant!

[redbear]

We went to stock up on some nappies at asda that where on sale and the sale assistant said 'you must have had your baby at the right time to get the bargins' I just said 'i havent had it yet' lol...
Now im a size 20 so i am big but to me i have a massive bump im six month preggers for christ sakes lol... Maybe its my work clothes i dont know but i just laughed-- at least she didnt ask when i was due if i hadn't had the baby yet!

 

[Pickledonions]

tut i find people rude some people say i have no bump at all others say im huge am i having twins! It irritates me

 

[winnie89]

people just expect us to have a huge bump and sometimes it not necessarily distinguishable with everyone i was told i looked small for 15 weeks and i'm like i feel huge (and i'm not that big really i was 12 n a half stone when i fell pregnant) and now i'm 13.2 just cant please ppl

 

[claire23]

my family and friends notice my bump probably because they know what i look like usually but im overweight and when i say i can't lift things for customers at work they look at my like im lazy and i get bored of explaining so don't bother correcting them lol, i hope people notice when im 6 months preggers, my poor mum before she lost weight got asked "when's it due" when she wasn't even pregnant bless herxxx

 

[vickib_1984]

I get told I'm too big for 20 weeks or asked are you having twins!!!! Annoys the hell out of me xxx

 

[Olive]

People are rude! I get called "house" by an annoying twat in my office because I am "housing a baby" so he says, but he's basically calling me fat.

One of my managers thinks its funny to ask if I'm expecting triplets

Then a few weeks ago, a woman we know told me I was pretty small for however many weeks I was. Cow! Lol.

I think I've learnt never to comment on bump size, just say lovely bump. Always a winner!

xxx

 

[LoopyLouize]

People are rude and I have had comments made to me that really really annoyed me at first, one of them being;

Wow Louize! Never though I would see you with 'hips'

I was so insulted as I am usually a size 6/8 and have the girls I work with constantly calling me skinny this skinny that, so now I am pregnant and I have put a bit of weight on.. They have now basically commented on me having 'hips'

I was peeved for like an hour and then just thought to myself, ahh well, its not like they are purposely being hurtful, they are just acknowledging the pregnancy.

Hope your ok though xx

 

[Olive]

Pfft it is rude though isn't it? I think it depends on your mood when someone says something! x

 

[Kerrykins]

It's one extreme to the other isn't it. I got lots of "huge" comments and I am expecting twins so to be fair I am huge (ha ha ha), but a bloke at work today said he hadn't noticed I was pregnant "I was like what you just thought I'd got fat(ter) but just in the tummy?". Hey ho, I refuse to be offended by anything anyone says............................anymore.......................starting now.

 

[redbear]

Yeh i dont know why people some things they must think because your pregnant you will just take all the comments nicley-- The customers at work always look shocked when i tell them im pregnant but then again when they have seen me carrying in the toolbox etc they must think im just fat!
You can tell more when im not in my work clothes so maybe its just those.

 

[littlemuffin]

It's the older ladies at work I don't like, they keep touching me. And only in the last week have I had something to show that I am pregnant, but I am still fitting in all my "normal" clothes. Also one girl in our office said, your baby is going to be massive if you are that big already, the only reply I could think was healthy, not massive, healthy. Think she got the hint. (i'm not big at all!!)

Still think it's quite cheeky for someone you don't know to say something to you like that.

 

[redbear]

Yeh but different people hold different amounts of water in different places it doesnt mean there baby is massive just because the bump is otherwise they wouldn't need to do this extra scan to see size of baby later on... i saw in a mag one woman who held all her water in her bum... she had no belly but a massive backside... it was very strange xx