am i wrong?

[catherine1987]

Am I wrong in still being extremely upset about my partner getting really drunk in Wednesday night- upset for my kids more then anything- from my point of view and my care I couldn't give a damn but from my kids point of view I really am upset.

I had a ceserean Monday got out Tuesday. He had little drink Tuesday but Wednesday he went completely over the top- Wednesday night- me hardly no sleep

He said that he still gives same care to his children weather drunk or not. I don't doubt that but I just feel so sad for them both- I wouldn't really mind but two days after I've had a c section too- he says I can't do this and that but I have been doing loads- cause I do it for my kids not me. I'm laying here now little one woke,n, partner is sparko he eventually wakes- do you need me to do anything I'm like no- back to sleep he goes- I ain't gonna lie yeah I am sore after the section but I keep on going regardless of what he says.

I looked at my kids point Wednesday and just thought why did I even bring you into this world!

My partner isn't normally like he was on Wednesday x

 

[catherine1987]

Been an hour and half

First time he woke and asked if needed help

Bout 10mins later he is completely oblivious that I have got up again changed little man cause his outfit was too big and gave him another milk cause he is acting really hungry. Finally going to lay down

I know I have done far too much but what choice do I have really? If he is a sleep?

 

[Sparklisam]

I think u need to ask for help. Men sometimes just don't 'see' what needs to be done. So need it pointed out to them !! Hope he's made up for it xxxx

 

[Sparklisam]

For ur kids sake they need a mummy that is healed as best she can be and by doing everything ur only going to delay ur recovery xxxx

 

[CarinT]

Dont think too much.

 

[soni456]

Ask for help and if he offers to help you don't say no. It's time for you to take rest and be healthy.

 

[MrsS143]

Wake him and tell him what he needs to do x