Am i letting people down finding out Gender? Update.

[CarlyD]

I've been having sleepless nights since the 20 week scan cos I changed my mind from team yellow at the last minute and was gonna find out, then she didn't offer so I didn't ask, and now after telling myself I was gonna find out I NEED to know. We booked a 4D scan for £95 so we find out next week! I'm sorry you couldn't find out but I recommend going for a 3D/4D scan cos I know how excited I am about it, now it's the light at the end of my sleepless tunnel!

I'm still not going to tell anyone else though. I want the moment after the birth of phoning people and saying "It's a..." -if I can keep it to myself that long!! Xx