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[PixieDust_01]

Hi guys its a been a while ! icouldnt remember my password haha.

I need some advice on somethings thats going on at the mo, basically we've been trying for about 6 months now, and i get the same thing each month before im due on, tenderness - bloatedness - moody, but this time its different, i feel very bloated very tired some smells are making me feel like i could puke if i smell them for too long, ive also got a mini cold coming on which i dont normal get, ive got a really bad headache which ive now had for 2 days but dont want to take pain killers just in case ... ! some nights are restless no matter how tired i am, i think my nipples are changing colour slightly too but not really sure ... ! finding it kinda hard to go loo ...... ! and feel like im wee'ing quite a bit more, also im getting very irratable more than normal anyways ! im due on in roughly 3 - 7 days, ive also been getting these random pains which ive also never had before .... ? thery are random and quite painfull, they come and go every night for the last 3 days, ( everything started to happen around the same time ! ) its like a sharp pain which only last a coupld seconds then goes again then a few mins later they sometimes come back, they are round my belly and just below my ribs, am very cinfused at the mo. and dont want to think at every little pain "oh yes im deff pregnant!" if you see what i mean? if i could have someones advice it would be really great thank you so much guys !! have missed everyone on here !!

 

[PixieDust_01]

oh also some rather random dreams too !!!

 

[LouiseB]

It's still early days really for a pregnancy to be having such a huge impact, but you never know

Good luck

 

[PixieDust_01]

yeahh i know just rather confused, but because im anemic, i didnt know if that would have any effect on anything x good luck with everything

 

[tinselcat]

hi pixiedust

well you've just given there a list of pregnancy symptoms so FX it could be good news for you!!!

 

[Pickledonions]

I started getting headaches at 7dpo and was tired...also at 10dpo after I had a bfp I had sharp pains and crmping so you never know

 

[PixieDust_01]

god i really hope so i no we havent been trying as long as some people ( and good luck to you all ! ) but i feel ike its just going on forever and that it will never happen ! im due on around tomorrow up to the 20th ... hate the wait !! just hope its good news then i guess its worth the wait x thank you guys

 

[PixieDust_01]

ok, so now its been (depending when i would have been on) since i was due on the 17th i would be now a week late, but if i was due on the 20th im still 4 days late, im never ever late on, also im getting really tired and smells are making me feel very ill, im getting a few more head aches that usual, also, this morning my belly felt like there was soemthing there, the only way i could describe it is to say it felt like a washing machine (obviously just not to fast !!!) i felt like there was something doing summersalts in there ... so when should i do a test, if i say i was due on the 20th, so 4 days late, when should i do a test ... ?? just dont wana do it to early and see negative and feel like rubbish, if that makes sence ?? any ideas guys would be very helpful xx

 

[sarahloususan]

If you're 4 days late then you should do a pregnancy test now, I really hope you get a BFP!

x

 

[PixieDust_01]

i just dont wana do it to early if that makes sence ?? also what does BFP mean lol thank you for replying so fast !! x

 

[jarjar81]

BFP is 'Big Fat Positive' hun...I say test! Good luck!

 

[PixieDust_01]

ahh !! thank you will keep you updated ! ! ! !

 

[PixieDust_01]

Well after all the excitement of having all these symptoms, and being 7 days late !! i came on and feel extremely gutted me and my partner both i guess all we can do is keep trying but will it ever happen ? strating to feel really rubbish about the whole thing Also find it extremely hard considering i work in Mothercare Hoep all you guys out there are having better luck x

 

[LouiseB]

Sorry it didn't turn out well for you

Being anaemic will have a HUGE impact on your ability to conceive.

 

[PixieDust_01]

ohh right, also came off the pill in jan 2011. what can i do to improve our chances does anyone no, thank you for that i really had no idea !! when i last was checked the docs said the safest my iron levels should be are 13, mine where 7 but that was a whie ago so i asume its better now ?? x

 

[LouiseB]

You can simply take an iron supplement

Unless you have drastically changed your lifestyle then i see no reason why it would have gone up - you need to be eating plenty of meats or dark leafy veg.

Iron is the main component of our blood and blood carrying oxygen and nutrients to every single part of your bodies, so not enough iron is going to effect everything.

Not enough iron is going to effect your ability to provide a nourishing environment for a baby.

It's going to inhibit your ability to ovulate, which probably explains the late period.

 

[PixieDust_01]

Well my partner is a huge meat eater ... Lol.. so i do eat alot of meat pretty much every day so i would have thought that it would have gone up by now, is there anything i can do to help the pill get out of my system ?? thank you for this

 

[Amy25wright]

Hi I have the same symptoms as you. I'm never late and now I am 8 days late but have done a couple of test which were negative. But after speaking to a few people on here is giving me hope as some people didn't get there positive until 10 days late. Good luck xx

 

[vickib_1984]

your not out until af shows good luck though xx

 

[faithangle]

Good luck hun I hope get that BFP, sending baby dust your way xx