AAARRRGGGHHH please help me

[louears]

Today i feel so angry, every little thing is making my blood boil, i can laugh about these things afterwards but still.

the most annoying thing is waiting to see a midwife. i am between 7 and 12 weeks pregnant, not exactly sure because my last period lasted for 1 day, that is the date that makes me 7 weeks. anyway i had to join a doctors as i moved house and never bothered, still haven't seen the dr yet, i was told that a midwife would call me, that was almost a week ago, so today i called the doctors to see why she hasn't been in touch to be told she was on holiday last week and is on holiday this week and will be back next week, but i am on the bottom of her list, so what do i do, wait or call the hospital, can i see someone at the hospital instead.

all this waiting is sending me doolally

 

[Tasha20]

Oh hun how annoying!

I would probably give the hospital a ring and tell them you are very unsure on your dates and think you already are 12 weeks, and then see what they say?

 

[louears]

yeah i think i will do that first thing tomorrow, i can't wait another week at least and then how ever long it takes after that to get my scan, i want one now!!!

 

[Tasha20]

Yeah I can understand that

 

[louears]

it is so frustrating waiting, but the health service round here is dreadful, you would think they would have a stand in midwife when one goes on holiday. and the woman who answers the phone is a right old hag, lol, i nearly went on there and hit her one, and i am not a violent person

 

[Tasha20]

To be honest hun they should have a stand in one? we do when ours is sick, they usualy have a team of midwifes, I think its ridiculus.

I think you should go up there then and ask why there isn't a midwife available while the other is away, thats not right.

 

[louears]

yeah first thing tomorrow i will sort this out, the hospital are generally nice so i am sure they will help me.

 

[Tasha20]

Yeah hopefully they will hun