Hi girls,
I had my nuchal scan today and we've been given a one in six chance of our baby having Down's. We've opted to have the CVS which we're having tomorrow. Both of us have always felt quite strongly that in this situation we couldn't abort, however it's hard to really know what you'd do until you're in that position.
We have a son who is nearly 3, I wonder what kind of impact, if any, a brother or sister with Down's would have on him, and I can't help thinking about quality of life, although everything I read on the internet leads me to believe I should worry there.
I guess what I'm hoping for by posting is if anyone has any real life experience of bringing up a baby with Down's? And the effect on siblings? I may not even be posting in the right place, in which case I'd be grateful if someone could point me in the right direction.
Thanks in advance
I had my nuchal scan today and we've been given a one in six chance of our baby having Down's. We've opted to have the CVS which we're having tomorrow. Both of us have always felt quite strongly that in this situation we couldn't abort, however it's hard to really know what you'd do until you're in that position.
We have a son who is nearly 3, I wonder what kind of impact, if any, a brother or sister with Down's would have on him, and I can't help thinking about quality of life, although everything I read on the internet leads me to believe I should worry there.
I guess what I'm hoping for by posting is if anyone has any real life experience of bringing up a baby with Down's? And the effect on siblings? I may not even be posting in the right place, in which case I'd be grateful if someone could point me in the right direction.
Thanks in advance
