A month off maybe???

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Well as I now seem to be having short cycles.....so Ive only just got rid of AF properly yesterday and my ticker reckons Im about to ovulate tomorrow and we havent even got a baby dance in yet!

I just feel like I need a month off TTC and just go with the flow....so although I will prob subconciously keep an eye on dates for my own curiousity etc but wont be making sue we BD on all the right days at the right time etc....so thats the way were heading this month....

I just think for the last 6 months and 7 cycles and with having the MC, all Ive thought about is getting a BFP and now Im pretty much burnt out and need a break from the stresses of it all as even when Ive had months when Ive been (or thought Ive been) stress free Ive still obsessed about BDancing at the right times etc etc so I think a break is in order coz Im just not in the 'mood' atm!

And I also think my ticker is wrong re ovulating tomorrow as theres no sign of it at all so we will see if good old mother nature kicks in and I get in the 'mood' in time or just end up having a chill this month....xxx

 

[vixforever]

Try the relaxed approach hun. It will do you and your DH a load of good not having to worry if you are BDing on the right days. You will get your BFP soon hopefully. You are a really inspirational woman Wilma, TTC and loosing weight! Relax hun, you deserve it!! xx

 

[xXxBonnyxXx]

Have a break hunni, it must be hard work with your cycles being so short now,
I am not really in that sort of situation because we BD every other day all the time whether we are TTC or not!!
The only difference is that I try to keep everything in when TTC and before I used to push it out!!!

Really hope it happens soon for both of us though!

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Ha Bonny god I giggle at your posts coz when were not TTC I also litterally leg it and push it all out I cant stand the mess when Im not TTC.....lol how awful is that! Lol But yeah its just getting like af comes and goes then its time to get down and dirty again and Im pooped! And I just dont want DH pressured atm as hes got enough coping with the diagnosis atm so yeah I think a very relaxed approach this month is needed! Goodness I NEVER thought I would be writing a post like this never mind thinking I needed a month off lol! But needs must and I must need a break or wouldnt be thinking like this! lol

Thanks Vix....tbh I think the diagnosis has kinda put things into perspective a little bit coz Im not completely onsessing about it all atm...instead Im planning stuff a day at a time in advance so thats keeping me occupied atm and prob taking some of the urgency to get a BFP away...can only be good for us to have a chill out month and relax tho right! lol xxx

 

[vixforever]

It'll do you the world of good hun x

 

[clem]

It will go by v quicky and you will be trying again before you know it. Def take a month off, take two! x

 

[xXxBonnyxXx]

hahaha wilma!!! I didn't leg it - I just made sure I had a towel handy at the side of the bed!!! hahahah!!!
Now instead of the towel I have my boy shorts to put on which help keeps everything in! Might even try my mooncup for the purpose of keeping it all this month!!!! anything is worth a try!!!

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

yeah nothing to loose Bonny! Erggghhh i legged it I hate all that mess lol strange though how when TTC i dont mind it at all ha ha how terrible of me! lol

Thanks vix and clem cant do any harm just need a break for the sex on demand stuff lol !!! xxx

 

[vixforever]

I used to do it near on everyday the month I got my BFP I only did it a few times, strange huh? Lol

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Ah definately strange! I know when I conceived DD as due to shift at the time we only got one BD in that month so yeah stranger things have happened lol! xxx

 

[Vickyxx]

I think some time off will be good spend some time enjoying yourself with your DH in this nice summer weather xxx

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Def Vicky im thinking its not going to hurt to not actively TTC this month and just go with it...therefore no pressure to bd on demand and then get cracking again when we feel like it...xxx