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[*saulino*]

Hi

My poor Kiara keeps getting pushed around by other older toddlers and i dont know how to deal with the other kids
At baby group she got clawed by another girl ,for some reason she always picks on her and Kiara just sits and lets them do it

here are two pics really burry though looks worse in person

Katrina

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

Can you not speak to there parents or is there someone in charge

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

I did and i tried to say that she aint been nice to her and she seems to think its her way of trying to be a mommy figure and is trying to baby her but to me its not that way when shes getting pushed and pulkled and scratched ect i dont wanna be rude about it because i get along really well with her mom and all the other moms but i know alot of them just do not watch their kids proper
Katrina

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

The only other thing i cn say is when you see them doin it you go up to them and just say " no don't do that please kiara doesn't like it" then point them in the direction of another toy or somethin.

Sorry if my advice is crap

 

[cloud9]

 

[Tiny Sue]

Hi Saulino -

The VERY same thing was happening to Naomi in her creche but it was a little boy who was doing it. My OH spoke to the staff and they said like " sorry there isn't anything we can do really," which we thought was just lazy. He replied rather sharply that they could ask the little boy's mother to cut his nails. They did that and let her know and she was "oh he's really fond of her he's always kissing her" and we were so annoyed. The staff said that Naomi was the only child this little boy scratched, because she was the only one who would take it. She's gentle enough.

We asked for the two children to be kept away from each other till the phase passed and it's fine now, he doesn't scratch at all. As a matter of fact they seem to be partners in crime now!

Sue

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Nic n keeley any advise is great thanks hun
Tiny sue thats odd the same thing has happened , i will be sure to try that the only thing is its all the kids doing it because she is the youngest toddler and just takes it .
Katrina

 

[angela-]

aww bless her hope it gets better for her, Niamh starts nursery tomorrow. xx

 

[lauramumof2]

Poor wee tot.

If its any help, when i used to take Jessica to the todders, she would have been about 1 then, she was very passive and would let others take toys and boss her. That went on for a wee while im afraid to say but as long as she wasnt getting upset or hurt I kept back, hard as that was. You just want to run up to the other tot and say give that back but you cant.

Now she will not be bossed or have toys taken off her but it didnt make her turn into a child that would take toys off others.
Im glad to say that the other kid calmed down too. Its just a wee part of them growing.