Hello! I've just had a second emergency section after a failed attempt at a VBAC.
They went in through the same scar, I have no idea what it looks like in terms of size as I can't quite see past my tummy yet!
In terms of labour although I was monitored closely I didn't have to be on the monitor all the time, it was more like 20 mins on 20 mins off and I didn't have to be on the bed, I was stood up most of the time and was able to move about within the range of the wires of course but I was able to be fairly mobile.
I know how you feel about the idea of ending up with an emergency section when you could have had an elective because I was exactly the same. The last thing I wanted was to end up in the same state as first time around but my consultant and midwife - who were brilliant - assured me that because of a previous section there's no way they'd let it go on as long and that if there was signs that labour wasn't going well that they would make the decision to go to section a lot sooner. That was exactly what happened and even though it was an "emergency" it felt more like an elective, I had a chance to express my wishes to the docs and my recovery has been a lot quicker.
I'm actually really glad I got a chance to go into labour naturally and make the attempt, and my birth experience was lovely. The theatre team were great and we were even cracking jokes!