COngratulations on your wee dancin baby!! Thats brilliant that "she" wouldnt sit still for the scan. I had no Idea you could get gender sticks! Thats pretty neat. 16-20 weeks is such a long time to wait, and its fun to guess along the way. Im 6 weeks today and everytime I talk about the baby I call it a "he" I dont know why, it just sounds natural to me. How soon can you use the gender sticks?