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    Did something stupid

    I'd also say stop testing, as you're possibly stressing yourself out over nothing. What will be will be...regardless of what a test tells you. Some people have symptoms early on, others sail through their pregnancy and don't feel any different. As long as your not bleeding or having any...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    Still waiting on my period here. Sometimes I feel like I'm going to start..but nothing. It's been just over 5 weeks since mc.
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    Am I even ready to be a mum! :(

    Even when I was pregnant, I never saw myself with a baby at the end which I think is why the mc didn't come as a shock. I had moments when i questioned if it was what i really wanted. Did I want to give up the life i have, the freedom to do what i want when i want. The thought of how my life...
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    Am I even ready to be a mum! :(

    You're not alone Kanga, I had the very same conversation with a friend the other day. I want to be pregnant again but haven't thought as far ahead as actually having a baby. When i do, the idea scares me. I don't know if its a hormonal thing as the yearning isn't so bad this week...or maybe...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    Ladies, I had 2 early scans (one to rule out ectopic and another a week later as I was spotting). The second scan showed everything was ok, saw a heartbeat etc....I mc the following week. I guess what I'm trying to say is perhaps pushing for an early scan could be giving false reassurance...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    Glad to hear you got things cleared up Kanga. Sounds like you'll soon be joining me in the wait for your cycle getting back to normal. I didn't test after, so no idea when my hcg disappeared.
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    My due date

    I'd guess your withdrawal bleed was actually your period. You are dated back to the first day of your last period by the Dr, but the Clearblue test tells you how long since you fell pregnant (hence the difference in dates). So basically, you conceived between 6 and 13th of July. If you...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    Crossed post Dysco..but it looks like you're thinking along the same lines as me. Just noticed you mentioning the wait you were told for a D&C. That's shocking! The only thing I can put the difference down to is waiting lists..or the fact that I had been admitted because of the severity of...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    Kanga...sooo sorry this is still dragging on for you. Did you make the decision to let nature take its course or were you given options when you found out? I've seen others here mention that they were told they could wait weeks for D&C's, which is shocking. I was told I could have the op the...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    Having a pretty crap day. Today should have been my 12 week scan. I'm also wondering if I have PMT as I've been feeling pretty down for the last couple of day, questioning the relationship I'm in and whether I'm happy not having kids. The thing is, whats to say I'd find someone else I was as...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    When I called in to work to let them know I was coming back, I told my boss I just wanted people to be normal with me. I wont lie, the first 2 days weren't easy, I felt like people were walking on eggshells around me. The only time it got to me was my first day back, when one of the girls who...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    MrsDraven, sorry, but I think your fiance is being completely unreasonable. Can't you (or him) speak to someone you know who also goes to this place and ask them to explain to everyone else what has happened? I'm really struggling to work out his thought process in leaving everyone in the...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    Hi JJ and thanks for the info. I did wonder if perhaps these were period symptoms that I'd just never really noticed before (I think you become hyper aware of your body and changes when you're pregnant!) Update - cheapo Morrisons test tonight said negative. I was disappointed for about a nano...
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    Cramping and clots 3 weeks after mc

    Kanga When I miscarried, I'm guessing i lost the actual baby when I started to bleed (I was passing huge clots and bleeding very heavily but when the hospital checked it was just tissue). When I was scanned, the sac was still there but ruptured looking. I'm no medical expert, but it sounds...
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    Our little dream :) Had a mc???

    On Monday of this week I had really really light spotting (more like light brown discharge) and figured I was about to take my period as it would have been bang on 28 days on Tuesday since the miscarriage. It's not come and the spotting was gone by Tuesday morning. I'm starting to get tired...
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