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Big hugs sweetie xxxx

Oh sweetie you poor love - what a sad day for you. I am the same as you, I don't feel that I lost a child (but I only mc-ed at 10wks, not sure how far you are?), not even close to that, and in truth, I just feel that this is life and everything happens for a reason so no, you are not heartless...

Oh wow dysco!! How exciting!!!! Can't wait to see it!!! xxx

Oh, and I ended up having 4 weeks off work - definitely needed it for me as even when I went back had a meltdown on Monday (this week) as I posted before, but the 4 weeks was such a help to just rest and start getting my head sorted xxxx

Keira - sorry, hit post before I was properly finished! I just wanted to say don't be scared - I know it it such a daunting time, but I promise it was so quick and easy (if that makes sense) and afterwards I felt like a weight was lifted and had no pain/bleeding or anything. The instances of...

Gosh I was lucky, the hospital offers D&Cs every day and I was told to arrive at 7.30 on the day that suited me - this was on the Thurs and I had the op on the Monday - This was all at St.Michaels hospital in Bristol which is the women's/baby/gynae hospital. Was home by 4pm and fast asleep about...

Oooh wish you lived nearer - would love to get my nails done for a bit of pampering!! Same to you too - let's all have Happy Tuesdays - Big hugs xxxxxxx

Oh sweetie - It is totally normal to feel like this - well, I am bloomin' hoping it is anyway else there is something very wrong with me! I find I just burst into tears over the littlest things when I'm least expecting it, but all the things you describe are such big triggers I can imagine it's...

dysco - a bit random, but I'm doing A-levels in Chemistry and Biology and hoping to go to med school in a year or two as a mature student, but not sure if that's all a rush of blood to the head!! I always wanted to be a doctor when I was younger, and I have a wobble about it every few months, as...

4.30am - wow! You're a trooper!! Tonight I have a shed load of work to catch up on and just waiting for OH to come home so I can send him out for a bottle of vino to help!! Dominos sounds like a plan - I cannot be arsed to cook at the moment. I have eaten more fish and chips, chinese, curries...

Yes the cost can be a right bugbear - as for the tears, yeah, they're knackering - are you up to much this evening? Maybe have a hot tub soak and a glass of wine to try and relax? How much bookeeping do you have to do? Is that for your tax return or is it a course? Sorry - nosy parker!! xxxx

Sorry to hear your news coruscating - big big hugs - like dysco says, there's a lot of us here at the moment - seems this Monday is a bit of a sh*t day too. How is your OH? xxxx

Kanga I have felt exactly the same and have signed up for some evening classes which is good to focus on, but I must say, bricking it a bit now that the first session is this Wednesday!!!! Eeek! xxx

Hey Keira, in terms of the d&c as much as I had a few ups and downs after mine, I am glad I opted for it - I had a minor infection afterwards and some spontaneous bleeding and cramping about 5 days afterwards which was a shock as thought it was all passed, but all in all, the process was so...

Hey Keira - am a little better this afternoon - think I'm all cried out for the day! There's no tears left..... Doctor advised me that there would be really sad days, and that when they happen, to just let them happen so that's what I guess has to be done. Just bloody wish they didn't happen in...