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Flossy82

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Why oh why do i always get this i have had an argument of sorts with the mil after i had asked her weither she would watch my 2 kids for 30 minutes before i got in from work as i work til 2.30 and my mum would drop them off at 2 and she ignored me for a while before turning round and telling me that she's far too busy to do this and that its my o/h responsibilty to do so (but he cant do this as he is away on a fishing trip with a mate) and to follow i got wrong of my mum and her partner saying that im piss taking as he's off fishing and they said they would only look after them as we were both working. i mean i only ever ask the mil to look after themonce in a blue moon and this is what i get and as for my mum they were the ones that offered to look after the kiddies so i could go back to work. Im so f****ng angry about this i knew it would happen somewhere along the line i'd get it thrown back at me it may look like i might have to give up work if this is the case :cry:
 
Dont remind me and i live with mine which makes it worse :evil:
 
and she wont even look after them for 30mins??? thats a bit harsh, mines not even a mil yet shes just my fiances mum but by eck i avoid her she seems to worm her way in every time me n oh have an arguement and she thinks shes gonna get her lil boy back home ffs lol
 
Brave god i think i need a medal its driving me nuts because she seems to intervene in everything we do and we are not allowed a life aside the kids. And no becks not even for 30 minutes thats all i asked for and i get this happening :evil:
 
Flossy82 said:
Dont remind me and i live with mine which makes it worse :evil:

OMG I would hate that! I dont know how you cope. She lives whith you and she wont even look after the kids. Id tell her that obviously family isnt important to her and if she feels like that then id tell her where to stick it. Sorry venting some anger here.... what is it with mils. I hope to god im not a nasty one when zack & baby grow up.

When she wants something doing or she asks for something ..just say your far to busy.
 
I dont know how people can be like that with there grandkids, my friends mum wont help at all she either has to walk the dog or clean the birds out ffs she wants to get her priorities right, my mum is fantastic can't grumble there, i had a not so good experience with partners mum the only time she's seen Abi and will be going to see her again in the next few weeks could be interesting after something i typed on Dans website in response to one of her msgs
 

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