I've learnt that those first few weeks are just an introduction to parenthood and that from now on - whatever the stage of my pregnancy and whatever the age of my children, I will always worry about keeping them safe! But there's no 'safe stage' is there? Your child will always be exposed to risk - from germs and disease, to crossing the road, to going on their first holiday away with their mates. Our job is to do anything within our power to keep them safe, but to accept that we can't wrap them up in cotton wool and there are just some things that we can't control. We have to cherish the good times rather than dwell on the what ifs - and that starts from the moment our babies are conceived xx