what to do?

[rainbows_x]

First off sorry for the essay and maybe bad grammar as I am using my phone!

I am 22, have an almost 2 year old girl. Me and her dad split last December. I am currently pregnant with my second child. It's a different father, who I split from around 2 months ago. He doesn't want the baby but says if I keep it he will be involved. His family don't believe I am pregnant even though they've seen tests & I've offered to do them in front of them.

He isn't allowed to see me.. his family are extremely overprotective.
My sister and a few friends know I am pregnant and are happy for me. I am absolutely terrified of telling my parents. They are very old fashioned so 2 children with 2 different dads, neither of which I am no longer with. isnt going to go down to well. I have a midwife appointment on Wednesday and want my mother to come to the first scan. My dad will flip, no doubt about it. This will be my last child as I only want two.

I am happy with my decision but I know not everyone else will be. Any advice will be much appreciated. X

 

[littlemuffin]

We can't tell you what to do sweetie. Only you know that.
But if it's what you want, then don't do something you will regret.

 

[inky]

I think you've just got to bite the bullet and tell them hon! They might flip, but ultimately you're carrying their grandchild, so I'm sure they will come round.

As for the dad not being able to see you, surely that's his decision!

 

[Pudds86]

They may flip out but if you've been strong enough to keep the baby the you been to tell your parents...

If they dont like it that's tough, you decided to carry this bubba and you will have to be strong to get through it all x

Sent from my shit hot phone! Fo shizzle home girls.