Hunnibee88
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Urgent advice needed please ( long story but desperate for advice)
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Simoneh00
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First off wow. You've been through the mill haven't you?
Massive hugs. I can't imagine how hard this is for you.
My advice to you would be to ring woman's aid in your local area. They can assist you with EVERYTHING that you need in this situation. They will help you find a house and most of the time it will be outside the area your partner lives in. They can help with costs of moving and can help protect your children and unborn baby from him.
This is their number 0121 685 8687
Please call them. I know it may sound scary but they can really help you. I wish you loads of luck getting out of that situation xxx
Massive hugs. I can't imagine how hard this is for you.
My advice to you would be to ring woman's aid in your local area. They can assist you with EVERYTHING that you need in this situation. They will help you find a house and most of the time it will be outside the area your partner lives in. They can help with costs of moving and can help protect your children and unborn baby from him.
This is their number 0121 685 8687
Please call them. I know it may sound scary but they can really help you. I wish you loads of luck getting out of that situation xxx
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If you contact women's aid and explain your situation they will most likely suggest a refuge whilst other accommodation can be found. I know it sounds bad but it's not always, I was placed in one in the Dudley area and every family actually gets their own flat in a secure unit which are nice for a short term option. You then get to apply for housing in the area of your choice and are put as high priority on the waiting list as your in a women's refuge therefore classed as homeless. I was terrified by the thought of a refuge but actually now I would definitely recommend it and found the whole experience very comforting.x
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I agree with the others. Phone Woman's Aid NOW. They'll find somewhere you can stay whilst they sort you out. My Mum went into a refuge when I was a child (with my brother and I)... It wasn't that bad. And the abusive partners weren't allowed to know where we lived so we were safe.
You need to get away from this bloke. He's not good for you, your baby, or your children. I wouldn't tell him you're going either, just pack up your stuff and go whilst he's at work. A women's shelter will be able to offer you all sorts of advice, help etc.
(((((HUGS)))))
You need to get away from this bloke. He's not good for you, your baby, or your children. I wouldn't tell him you're going either, just pack up your stuff and go whilst he's at work. A women's shelter will be able to offer you all sorts of advice, help etc.
(((((HUGS)))))
