Unrelated pregnancy problem

[Emapot1]

My marriage is very strained at the moment and I don't really know what to do. I just needed to say it out loud. Let's just say there's a point when you realise your not on the same team anymore. I've got to that point and I'm just not happy. X

 

[Loretta]

Oh heck, I'm so sorry to read this. Are you able to talk it through together?

 

[Kaylip29]

Aww sorry to hear this Emapot, really hope it's just a rough patch and you can get through it together! Big hugs

 

[Emapot1]

I think personally it's past it. He's just made a immoral decision on a serious matter (involving a bad incident on a work do) and has basically in other words (scuse my french) shat on my respect! The fact he has repeatedly said I dont know why your so upset is quite a insult. I'm lying on my bed trying to work out the best course of action. I can only but think some space is the best thing for it. I'm probably going to stay away with my son for the night to have some time. I really don't want to be in the same room as someone who puts their work employees before their wife! X

 

[buggy1]

I feel the same as you! Things aren't right and haven't been for a while, it's hard to know what to do..

 

[TashaWink]

I'm so sorry ladies that you're feeling like this.

You should always be put first before anyone (even if you're in the wrong)

 

[Crawkay]

Sorry to hear things aren't right for a couple of you.

Whatever you both decide I hope you can be happy and enjoy your lovely babies.xx

 

[Emapot1]

Having this baby is very much wanted and so much love to give. I've grown an even stronger bond with my son. I just feel so distant from my husband. X

 

[buggy1]

I don't know about you but hoping things improve when baby comes. It's been a difficult pregnancy which I think has made it worse

 

[Emapot1]

I know what you mean in that respect because we have also not known the future of this little girl until around 23 weeks. Not knowing if she has the same virus or if she was well and now we have the news to change our world that she will be ok, I just hope her presence uplifts the mood between us as it would be such a horrible time to separate. X

 

[Emapot1]

It seems that the loss of our girl in June has had horrible impacts on us and the strain is bad but perhaps I'm not the only one x

 

[TashaWink]

Does he talk about your daughter? And how much the loss affected him? Maybe he has so much built up and now that you're coming towards the end he's really anxious and doesn't know how to deal with it?

 

[BonzE]

So sorry to read this, especially after all you have been through. Maybe he is still grieving and beig a man can't talk about how it affected him or the fears he may have for this baby? Not excising him as I hate it when my hubby isn't on my team...they should always be your team mate. Thinking of you and here anytime you need to offload xxx

 

[buggy1]

We're the same. Lost our little girl. I think both of us are struggling with that still but in different ways. I think he'd rather try and forget where as I prefer to try and remember her and keep her part of our family. This pregnancy has been full of worry, wondering whether this one will be healthy and if it will end well. It's a very difficult thing for any couple to go through.