Unbelieavable!!!!

[So_hopeful81]

Grrrr!!!!

Too much tension in this house... And not enough bedrooms!

Have had a row with OH again about his obsession with materialistic things. (to cut a long story very very short- daughter cried, needed cough medicine, he wanted I follow medicine only allowed in te kitchen rule- incase it spilt! I told him to et over it- she coughed it out and he was there mopping it up before making sure she was OK!)

Anyway - I have screamed as this is what happens sometimes- he forgets how important people are ... And told him it's me or him downstairs on the settee... He chose me!!!!

I have heartburn hell (Rennie and gaviscon are both next to my bed upstairs!) I am 38 weeks, uncomfortably pregnant and he chose or me to sleep down here.... Grrrr!!!

So I am trying, but miserably failing to get comfy and cannot sleep for love nor money- which is a funny saying bearing in min what the arsehole and I have argued about tonight!!!!

Tomorrow I really hav I go an discuss my possible death and the fact he is the best person to look after my children- pah!!!!

Grrrrr!!!!

 

[Sassysugar]

Hope you're ok, I wouldn't have given the choice, I would have told him he was on the sofa!! How selfish of him! Hope you manage to get some sleep hun

 

[So_hopeful81]

Well - as yet I haven't! I decided to piss him off though and have just rented breaking dawn from sky no office and st an watched it alone! That's a bit of money and at least the 'date night' I had promised him
On Friday night has now been ruined!!!!

He really is selfish isn't he!
I know he's working hard... I do appreciate that he has to get up each morning and go and work
Hard for the day- but I truly am
Finding this pregnancy thing + looking after a 4 and a half year old hard. The thing I desperately need is sleep... Now tomorrow I have a midwife appointment to get to, a child to take to and from school and I have to go
For this will writing thing! If it wasn't all so important I would be sticking my fingers up at him and telling him to go f&£k himself!!!!

Perhaps it is all hormones on my side, but I actually believe that I am entitled to feel a bit bleeding hormonal right now! I feel bloody livid--- along with terribly exhausted!

 

[l_maclean]

sorry to hear your having a bad night. Men can be right idiots sometimes. Xxx

 

[BabyBrain]

I can feel a major pushing pressie coming on, get materialistic on his arse

 

[BellaRiven]

to you, he was being a complete arse and I would be demanding he stay on the sofa not you, and if he had any sense he would apologise

xxx

 

[charlie26]

I had a bad enough nights sleep in my bed, let alone on the sofa. Make him pay for it today. I wouldnt even get off the sofa, complain of backache. Hope ur not aching too much hun xxx

 

[TORino]

Oh Hun, you slept on the sofa???

Hope you are ok today. Fancy him telling you to sleep on the sofa? Jeez.

 

[So_hopeful81]

Well girls... I managed a whole 2 hrs! I am seriously disappointed in his shit! He has yet to come downstairs, but I am not planning on talking to him when he does! I feel crap!!! I shall take myself upstairs- set the alarm to get up at 10 and I shall try at least to get an hour before mw. This will writing appointment should be interesting huh!!!

Worst thing is, he is obviously not taking his arse into work today - and has decided to work from home... So I have a whole day of avoiding him as well as feeling like poo because of last night!
I was supposed to be taking Imogen to school so that he could go into work early. He has just sent her downstairs to ask if I am still asleep. I informed her to walk back upstairs and explain - no mummy has not slept at all!!!
He is such a twat!!!
I feel so pissed off!!!

 

[BabyBrain]

you'll get your revenge hun, we always do. If he's off work today then he can do everything later whilst you rest xxxxxxxxxx

 

[So_hopeful81]

Nope!

I am so f£&ked off with him, I can't even demand from him! I can't een look at him!
The way I am feeling, if I went into labour today - I would question whether I really wanted him in the room!!!
He has pissed me off massively!!! I honestly don't know if this is hormones, but I am feeling SOOOOO angry it is untrue! Firstly for his obsessive clean behaviour, before thinking about us! Secondly because I can't believe that he has actually allowed me to stay down here for the whole night, with absolutely no concern whatsoever!!!!

He just walked into the front room- before he said anything I told him to
Leave me alone, because not only could I not talk to him, I didn't even want to look at him!!!

 

[BabyBrain]

Hun I think once your appointments are out of the way today you will feel a bit better....still very pissed off which you are right to be but in yourself I think you will feel calmer. He's acted like a twat, as they often do but today I think is making it worse

 

[furbaby]

I hope you think up some thing suitable as means of punishment- now I don't also condone revenge but in this case..... I think he has acted like a twat (or is that putting it too politely?)

hugs and I hope you get some sleep today xxx

 

[So_hopeful81]

Do you know what... You are spot on!
This is so not my usual behaviour. I know he would have irritated me with this in the past, but not to this extreme! I suppose just having to think about what could go wrong, and then hearing someone whine because they have a headache was one step too far for me!

I suppose he's not even thinking about it all like this winter is he! But he will suffer in some way later! Lol!
Xxx

 

[So_hopeful81]

Doh I wrote that whilst walking... I meant I guess he's not thinking about it aim the same way I am thinking about it!!!

 

[My1stBaby]

grrrr men!!!! i cant believe he made you sleep on the sofa!!! i bloody hope he feels horrible and guilty.

he better make it up to you!!

big hugs xxxxx