This might be a sensitive topic or classed as a 'TMI' but...

[Ebony_Mommy]

... i need to know

mums..

have ur o/h's said that ur 'nookie' feels any different than before the baby?

do u think ur 'nookie' feels less 'tight'?

preferably if uve only had oe child....

sorry.. my mind is just wondering

(u dont have to comment if u feel embarassed.. just vote please)

 

[Jadie]

Hiya, It does feel different but better for me now!

I understand/know my body more if that makes sense?

jade

 

[Em78]

my dh says its the same. doesnt feel tighter or looser to me either.

gotta say though i swear for me its way more sensitive now after the first half a dozen times when it was still a bit sore at first it just got better and better. and i never had any complaints to begin with and there was me worrying it would never be the same - its better than ever

its not always an easy thing to get back to though. what made it easier for us was to keep the intamacy between us even though we werent having nookie. a snog and a grope here and there made it easier to get back into our normal sex life.

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[Ebony_Mommy]

ok... so how soon did ppl get bk to regular 'sex'

this might be tmi.. but im scared ill feel loose

im thinkin of tryin a dildo first before 'real sex'

am i weird?

 

[Jadie]

regulur sex? whats that!!!!!!

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

ok...lol..

penetrative sex (vaginal or anal)

 

[kirlykird]

I voted the same but mine was c sections so don't know if that counts

 

[Em78]

I got back to it just before my 6 week check up. maybe 3/4 weeks after that till i really started to relax and enjoy it again.

i would say just go with normal sex to start with - i think it would be more uncomfy with something that wasnt fleshy if you know what i mean

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

lol... yup ... i kno wat u mean

 

[Em78]

glad you didnt make me spell that one out Ebony

i'm at work and you can bet one of my bosses would walk in second i type something rude!!!

honestly hun i wouldnt worry about it. just keep the lovin' alive in as many ways as you can and the sex part will be a lot easier. if you oh is anything like my dh then just having you back to normal size will be enough that he cant keep his hand to himself!!

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[Rachel]

It felt the same to me, I was expectin to feel nothing but it didnt change I had sex about 3 weeks after I'd given birth and it was fine

He also said it still felt the same aswell, he was quite suprised

 

[sueh]

Hi just thought i'd butt in - i was really nervous about this aswell not about it being looser but whether it would be painful or not, well apparently it feels the same(not slack as a yack but DH did ask them to put an extra stitch in, how embarrassing) but the first time i did it was about 6-7 weeks after i was sh*ting myself, make sure you have a drink and use lots of lube , i thought it was a little drier up there (if you know what i mean), god i can't believe i'm doing this again!!!!

Hope this helps x

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

''...an extra stitch...''

 

[budge]

well ive had four kids and it feels the same to me and hubby. I think so long as you make sure you do your pelvic floor excerises (which i do religiously) things are much the same.

 

[Keely]

I am slightly looser because i had a bad tear and never healed properly but OH said it feels better as i was too tight to begin with hehe xxxx

 

[Dee1985]

feels no different for me kris likes it more now im not so tight

 

[Kas]

LOL he says it feels the same but ive always been rather small in that department, but we both agreed its made my clitorus more sensitive soz TMI but u did ask, it was a bit uncomfotable before but it alot better now, i dont thing it stretches but the outside of your vagina does loosen well in my case but the inside doesnt, LOL god i dont know how to explain, my cousin did say rather than havin a round entrance it turns into a slant but the inside still remains the same XkelX

 

[Jayceesmumma]

same, and more sensitive, MUCH better sex!
Pelvic floor exercises are the best thing

 

[xSuzx]

Mines the same to and like the others it feels more sensitive.

I thing that both of the above is because I'm move aware of my pelvic floor now and do the execises.

xSuzx

 

[cassi]

yeah defo do ur pelvic floor excersises

took me 3 weeks and i was quite nervous felt a tad sensitive and maybe abit loose but i am still doing my excersises and im sure it iwll go back to normal in no time