still no af getting worried now... updated pg 2

[Manda&Thomas]

well the title says it all really thomas is 10 weeks old now surly i should of had something by now, ive had nothing no signs of her coming either
my bleeding after birth stopped after a few days and ive had nothing since about 2 weeks ago i had a tiny bit of pink when i wiped just once and now its got me worried it was an implantation bleed
i really dont want to be pregnant we have used condoms everytime weve had sex so im not sure how it could of happend if i am,
i no i should test but im so worried about what it would say,
i havent got any symtoms of being pregnant apart from my triffles tasting minty?? and a yougart tasted awfull the other morning even though it was well in date
any help would be great or to hear from anyone who has gone longer without bleeding after birth
oh just to add i never breastfed as i no that can effect it
xx

 

[fran_23]

erm the last time i posted something like this i was pregnant-
i didn't know and i had also used condoms everytime.. i posted saying how long does AF
take to settle after birth as i'd had 2 on the 10th and the 12th and it was the 16th and i still had nothing-
tested to put my mind at ease..but it was positive..still don't know what happened!

sorry this post just reminded me of that- i cant remember how long after the bleeding stops you should get your period-
hope it shows up soon..maybe it takes a few weeks to show.

 

[Manda&Thomas]

thanks hun not really what i wanted to hear but still...
i wouldnt mind another baby thomas is so good i think i could cope but hes having an operation in feb and if im heavily pregnant i wont be able to be there as the hssie is over an hours drive away
think im just going to have to test
xx

 

[fran_23]

I'm sorry hun i know my post wasn't very helpful-

At least if you do test you know what you are dealing with and can get on with it-
i would say do it if anything just to stop your mind racing- stress can delay your period too!

good luck..hope you get the result you want! again sorry for my first post..i'm shite

 

[kelsey]

its been 7 months and still no af for me - but i'm b/f.

 

[1sttimemum]

Good luck with the test hun.

 

[Emma58]

How are you Manda?

I had my first period 8 weeks after Sam's birth but i had bled for about 5 weeks after having him.

All I can say is Test if you have used protection and the condom hasn't split then you should be OK but after reading Frans post youu can never be too sure.

 

[Manda&Thomas]

i did ask hubby to pick me up a test on his way home (hes still not staying here but thats a different story)
but doubt he will lol think he thinks thats a womens thing to buy lol
if i manage to get out today il buy a test and do it right away i tested in the afternoon with thomas so should be ok doing it again
xx

 

[Emma58]

Good luck

It could be stress delaying AF as well though hun you are going through a tough time of it.

It is scary though when AF is late this month mine was 3 days late and I got myself in a right state about it I even tested then came on about 2 hours after I had tested

 

[Manda&Thomas]

lol always the way aint it hun
will update this when i have tested
xx

 

[Jade&Evie]

I still have't had mine and Evie is 11 weeks old- I tested a couple of weeks ago and got BFN so I think it's just a waiting game. I've flet like it's coming for a week now but still nothing- HV seems to think it was because I fed Evie to start with and I've been stressing quite a bit.

Test just in case, but don't worry if you get BFN it'll come soon enough

 

[trixipaws]

cant really advice as i b/f for 8 months and back on the pill now but good luck testing

 

[Manda&Thomas]

i have some tests but dont need to wee now
hubby has just gone for a bath aswell so cant go yet,
got the counsil coming out at 2pm so need to go before then
xx

 

[Emma58]

Drink loads of water. That'll make you want to wee.

 

[sazzylou]

Izzie was almost 11 weeks old before i got my period...i was terrified i was preggers!! And a bit dissapointed when i wasnt,

Let us know how you go with your test hun xxx

 

[Manda&Thomas]

i managed to go and it was negitive, im so pleased
looks like il just have to wait,
thanks all for your surport
xx

 

[Emma58]

I'm glad you got the result you wanted.

Just watch you'll be like me and AF will turn up today now you have tested.

Sods Law!

 

[1sttimemum]

glad you got the result you wanted manda

 

[Tillytots]

yay! glad you're happy hun. I only got AF last week and we both gave birth on the same day so dont worry xxxx

 

[jennywren]

I didnt get my first period till DS was about 3.5 months!!! I wasn't scared I just figured it was normal - Good job I was right or Id have been up shit creak without a paddle!