Rant!!

[Chazabell]

Arghhhhhhhhh!!!!

I went out just after christmas with a bunch of new friends and opened up to 1 girl about my ttc journey. She has kids and had just been on a 1st date.

She's just announced on facebook she's pregnant!!!!!!!!! What the actual flip???

How is that fair? Less than 4 weeks ago we were out.

Here's me jumping thru hoops, having doctors prod my cervix, eating pineapple core, drinking rank tea, eating salmon, baby asprin, no caffeine, no alcohol, ensuring I relax.

Jeeeeeeeeeez, the world is a strange place!!

Had to get that off my chest. Will no longer think about it!! xx

 

[TINKS82]

I know exactly how u feel. I told the girls in the office because we are a small team and support one another. One girl got married & fell pregnant straight away and she came back in October. I am having my transfer tomorrow and she announced yesterday that shes expecting again grrrrr she doesn't know hoe lucky she is and will of only been back 6 months when goes on maternity leave again. Life is just not fair xx

 

[nds]

*lurking*

i'm sorry i don't know what you're going through, and i won't say i know how you feel because i don't.

but seeing other people pregnant when you're not is pretty upsetting.

i wish you both loads and loads of good luck and send you lots of my love and baby dust.
i sincereley hope you both get everything you wish for and more very soon.

i know i've been of no help, i apologise, just didn't want to read and run.
i know it's awful having friends get pregnant when you've experienced or are going through something emotional such as your ttc journeys.

it's upsetting to see them all happy and enjoying the pregnancy (and even more so for those like 'omg i can't wait to not be pregnant anymore' these ones get my back up - you don't realise how blessed you are! enjoy!) and then they have their baby and everyones cooing over it while you're around and you just want to scream why is that not me!

lots of love and luck.
i hope you are feeling a little chirpier soon - i don't say that in a cliche way, i really do mean that i hope you do feel a little better - but i also understand you may not. it's difficult to find words to say because i haven't experienced what you have and i apologise for having no idea what you are feeling! but you're right TINKS, life isn't fair at all otherwise you two would have these babies you so desire
xxxx

 

[ab11]

Aww I know Chaz it's not fair but it's nearly our turn now.
Gonna mean so much more to us than people who get caught so easily.
Don't let it upset u or stress u out go listen to miss west xx

 

[nds]

*sorry i posted something then changed my mind but can't delete post?*

 

[Blueflower]

*sorry i posted something then changed my mind but can't delete post?*

You can edit it?

 

[nds]

*sorry i posted something then changed my mind but can't delete post?*

You can edit it?

yeah i did edit it, id posted a link to something but then i decided against it sorry i can't delete xx

 

[Blueflower]

Arghhhhhhhhh!!!!

I went out just after christmas with a bunch of new friends and opened up to 1 girl about my ttc journey. She has kids and had just been on a 1st date.

She's just announced on facebook she's pregnant!!!!!!!!! What the actual flip???

How is that fair? Less than 4 weeks ago we were out.

Here's me jumping thru hoops, having doctors prod my cervix, eating pineapple core, drinking rank tea, eating salmon, baby asprin, no caffeine, no alcohol, ensuring I relax.

Jeeeeeeeeeez, the world is a strange place!!

Had to get that off my chest. Will no longer think about it!! xx

So she must have got pregnant with this new boyfriend?! I bet he isn't best pleased that its so sudden! That's the only thing that might make you feel better! I was thinking today that my DH and I have been through a lot already but at least I know that he wants a family as much as I do now, whereas when I first mentioned it he freaked out!

 

[flisstebbs]

drinking rank tea

You don't like the tea then???

Get used to it, WHEN (not if) you are in tri 3 you have to drink it 3 x per day

 

[Chazabell]

Oh Fliss....it's ok, not as nice as the tea bags ha ha!

Blue flower....she isn't with this fella!!

I've just congratulated her. Just sucks how some get it sooo easy!

Nods...I see your new and from Lancs....hello

Anyone who wants to rant about anything....let's stick it in here, then we can keep our other posts happy xxx

 

[nds]

she isn't even with this guy? oh gosh *hands over face*.

i am! are you close by? xxx

 

[Chazabell]

Nope!

Yes i live near Southport. You?

How long have you been ttc? xxx

 

[nds]

oh no i wish you hadnt asked me that. i'm sorry im not on this forum, i just wanted to try and help you feel better. perhaps i was wrong to post i'm very sorry.

i am from preston though - so were not very far away at all! x

 

[MelC2011]

I too would be extremely hurt and upset ... It certainly takes the piss.
It's so unfair that some of us lovely ladies have to go through such a tough journey to get there goal of being a Mummy.
2 years down the line I'm still waiting to reach my goal.
Sending big hugs xx

 

[Chazabell]

You can post wherever you like Hun, I was just being nosey

Preston's not far at all. Probably the mist local I've seen on here to me lol xx

 

[nds]

sorry, please forgive me for not replying. i'm one of the people you hate and i am so sorry.
i was just expecting to talk about you, hence why i posted. i apologise. if it makes you feel better i can no longer post on here, and can edit my posts (as can't delete them can i?). i'm sorry.

not at all. that is very local indeed! xxxx

 

[Chazabell]

I don't hate anyone Hun. You can honestly post wherever you like. We are all friendly. That's why the site is here, support and chit chat, all kinds of people from all walks of life.

I'm sorry if I have put you on the spot or anything like that. You are not offending me or upsetting me by posting at all. I promise. Please don't remove or delete/ edit your posts.

xxxx

 

[Daisy2011]

oh its very hard sometimes, ive been ttc so long that many ladies are returning for baby number two.ive been in ther the whole time they went thriugh their pregs and they have toddlers.

i wave everyone else off happlily and yet there i still am feeling gloomy.
its hard to wish them luck - more luck - when ive had non and a very difficult time and they already have one baby upstairs already. and then poof another bfp and on they go. big whoop. yes im happy for them but boy is it hard to keep smiling. there ive said it at last.

rant over xox daisy

 

[nds]

I don't hate anyone Hun. You can honestly post wherever you like. We are all friendly. That's why the site is here, support and chit chat, all kinds of people from all walks of life.

I'm sorry if I have put you on the spot or anything like that. You are not offending me or upsetting me by posting at all. I promise. Please don't remove or delete/ edit your posts.

xxxx

not a reaction i was expecting - that's so nice of you, thankyou.

i'm sorry again though.

daisy - this is the place to say it! you rant away.
lots of love and baby dust. (i know it does nothing but the thought is there ..)

 

[her13]

It's s**t hearing things like that. And you never imagine things would of turned out this way for you. I'm at 13 months now after my last mc god knows how long it's going to take this time , I'm losing positivity now 2-half years later and no baby ,and when each new year begins I think hmm well I wonder how many people I know are going to be announcing there pregnancy this year. X x x