Pregnant straight after miscarriage.... Worried

[3lilmonsters]

Hi all I'm 11dpo got my first faint + yesterday but I'm really worried I had a m/c on 14th July and I'm so scared that this is going to end the same or be a chemical I'm driving myself crazy. Does anyone else feel like this or is it just me? I feel like I'm on edge and waiting for something bad to happen xx

 

[bluegirl]

Yes - I still feel like it's all going to end in tears although this pregnancy feels completely different to the last.

It helps to keep busy, think in small milestones... i have a countdown app on my iPhone and currently have the following countdowns running in order:-

- Weekend!
- David Home (My Husband)
- 9 Weeks Pregnant
- London
- 10 Weeks Pregnant

It just helps me to keep focused on the little milestones rather than countdown to the 12 week scan just yet

 

[amygates88]

Hi I had a miscarriage and then was pregnant again 3 weeks later with out af in between. I was terrified that it would end the same way my first pregnancy did. Try not to panic and just take it easy. I'm now 36 weeks gone so it doesn't always end badly! Stay positive and try to enjoy your pregnancy. Xx

 

[twixi]

Hi hope you're ok, I'm going mad too, one minute in floods of tears next I'm trying to forget I'm pregnant. Still spotting brown it's driving me nuts!
There has been a muck up with my hcg bloods so instead of finding out results today like I should have done, they need to start them all over again!!! I'm so mad and starting to get very down. I know it could be a lot worse but it's so hard xx

 

[Linzie2012]

I had a missed miscarriage then a ERPC, 3 weeks after I had a positive without a period in between to whom I'm 23 weeks with now.

I was very worried too, still am now at times but the pregnancy felt totally different to the first tha I lost

Hope all goes well for you x

 

[BunnyN]

I had a chemical then a BFP the next month. I checked for blood every time I went to the bathroom. It wasn't until I was about 20 weeks pregnant and feeling the baby move every day that I could relax a bit. Now my LO is 3months old.

 

[Flynnbear]

Hi all I'm 11dpo got my first faint + yesterday but I'm really worried I had a m/c on 14th July and I'm so scared that this is going to end the same or be a chemical I'm driving myself crazy. Does anyone else feel like this or is it just me? I feel like I'm on edge and waiting for something bad to happen xx

This was exactly the same situation I am in. I m/c on 13th July and am now 5wks 5days pregnant. Hate going to the toilet, worried that I'll wipe and there will be blood like last time. How far gone are you 3lilmonsters? Fingers crossed this time we have sticky beans!

 

[3lilmonsters]

I know every time I check and have a awful feeling until I see it's ok. I'm 5w 5d yesterday was hard for me as I had my m/c at 5w 4d, so It was a huge milestone for me x

 

[Toria111]

Awww, its hard isn't it. I had blighted ovum which resulted in managed miscarriage end of may. Then found out I was pregnant again mid June! I was so worried about everything and convinced the same would happen again, so I booked a private scan for 6 weeks. It was the best idea ever, and worth the £100. We saw heartbeat and totally put my mind at ease. 14 weeks today and all going well.

Hope you get a sticky one this time x

 

[missbline]

sorry to jump on the post but

ladies when did you get your af ? im 4+3 days after my miscarriage..and not a sign of it coming

 

[3lilmonsters]

I never had one as I got my bfp straight away, I know Daley had a m/c in may and she is in cd50's now with no af so it varies from woman to woman. My body went straight back to normal but I've heard it can take anything from 4-8 weeks to get back to normal x

 

[3lilmonsters]

Hi all I'm 11dpo got my first faint + yesterday but I'm really worried I had a m/c on 14th July and I'm so scared that this is going to end the same or be a chemical I'm driving myself crazy. Does anyone else feel like this or is it just me? I feel like I'm on edge and waiting for something bad to happen xx

This was exactly the same situation I am in. I m/c on 13th July and am now 5wks 5days pregnant. Hate going to the toilet, worried that I'll wipe and there will be blood like last time. How far gone are you 3lilmonsters? Fingers crossed this time we have sticky beans!

I just realised we m/c at same time and then both must have conceived the same time aswell as we're both due on the same day (I think haha) x

 

[Flynnbear]

How strange that all our dates are so close! I think we are due on the same day! Have you had any appointments yet? I went to the doctors yesterday but he said he couldn't date me due to MC but hasn't referred me early to maternity or anything. He said I could call EPU and see if they would see me but they have said they need a referral. I could get private scan next Wednesday for £45 though!

Hope everything is good with you.

 

[3lilmonsters]

I had a scan last week at 5+1 and she measured me at 5+3 I have another scan on Tuesday then my booking app next Friday. Wishing you luckhun xx

 

[Flynnbear]

That's brilliant news 3lilmonsters! I might get my OH to ring up EPU again later and see if he can get them to scan me!

 

[3lilmonsters]

Yes you should hun they scanned me because of the loss x

 

[Karate Kid]

How are you feeling ladies? Xx

 

[xlindseywells]

I had a miscarriage on the 28th June, stopped bleeding on the 7th/8th July. Found out I was pregnant 3-4 on the 4th August.

I was worried at first. But now I'm roughly 7/8 weeks and have my first midwife appointment (with hopefully a scan on the Friday 13th - date sucks, lol). Just think positive!