Pissed Off!

[bearsmummy]

I have no idea still! lol
I thought i was having a boy so only picked out his name and still can't find one i love for a girl.
I'm really strugling.
You have any names yet?
x

 

[charlene09]

Yes I love Allanah , wow why did I just say why you asking me then , I forgot I was pregnant for a min , think im loosing my marbles , And i like patrick for a boy

 

[bearsmummy]

Lol oh dear!!
Aww they're nice names
My boys name was Oliver. I love that name!!
But i can't think of a girls name. I have some contenders but none i have fallen in love with x

 

[charlene09]

Haha, aww I like Oliver

And have you not got a baby names book or anything , Its so hard to find names isnt it with everyone having babies now they all robbing our names haha I did like evie but someone on my streets just had an evie !! smith as it goes haha xx

 

[bearsmummy]

I do but its hopeless and i just end up losing my temper and throwing it lol!
I loved Evie but someone i know had a girl and called her Evie on my birthday so it just seemed weird to have it. x

 

[Natasha+1]

i hope it not wrong that i lolled a little reading this its so normal hun your hormones are making you edgy and he is not getting it in the slightest i done some shopping and stood in tesco shouting like a right twat at my mum and daughter over a frozen dinner just couldnt help myself just go have a soak take some deep breaths and dont worry

Lol at serenitylove, I also went mad at some stupid driver in the supermarket carpark who was making me wait all day so he could get into a space, my mum said ''you are gunna have to calm down!!''

 

[charlene09]

i hope it not wrong that i lolled a little reading this its so normal hun your hormones are making you edgy and he is not getting it in the slightest i done some shopping and stood in tesco shouting like a right twat at my mum and daughter over a frozen dinner just couldnt help myself just go have a soak take some deep breaths and dont worry

Lol at serenitylove, I also went mad at some stupid driver in the supermarket carpark who was making me wait all day so he could get into a space, my mum said ''you are gunna have to calm down!!''

Hahaha! glad i dont drive then , otherwise i wud end up smashing my car into someone

 

[bearsmummy]

Hahaha! glad i dont drive then , otherwise i wud end up smashing my car into someone

Haha you saying that i have had to cut down how much i drive because i get road rage so bad!!

 

[charlene09]

haha aww x

 

[Lacey's Mummy]

I've noticed since being pregnant everyone is crap at driving! It's either that or I'm bloody impatient lol!

 

[katietateypot]

Hi hun, me and jay argued loads when i first found out i was pregnant, so much i used to think of kicking him out but then my sensible head would come back and i would realise i was hormone crazy!!
I'm not saying its the same for you but like the girls said have a nice relaxing bath and have a think about what you want. try not to stress yourself out more than you already seem to be.

Whatever you decide im sure it will be what is right for you. xxxx

 

[charlene09]

Thankyou

I have had a bath and feel loads better now x

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

me and amys dad row quite i bit i even threw a plate of fish and chips at him coz he was taking the piss out of me coz of my accent lol coz hes yorkshire he says it hard to understand me sumtimes lol coz im geordie lol you know what men are like lol i agree with everyone take a bath and chill out, hell come grovelling back when he realises what hes done men are weird creatures lol he use to tell me to get out of where we live lol bu as i told him well its a bit hard when or the alarms get switched on at night lol so the net morning i use to take my self for a walk and stay out two to three hours and when i get back hes like where have you been lol its just hormones chris is exactally like your oh, i chris stumped a toe he would blame it on me or the cat, when its his fault and he leaves stuff lying around xx hope your ok and keep ya chin up

 

[Chellybaby88]

Hi Charlene

I remember when I was pregnant with DD, i must have only been a few months gone and I was like a mental patient. I would smash plates, scream and cry hysterically and finished with OH i don't know how many times. But it was just the hormones that were doing it. OH clicked onto this when i was maybe 4 months and he knew that he just had to give me a hug and give me a bit of space and I would be fine.

Pregnancy is a scary thing, especially if its both of your first, so you are both bound to be stressed out and scared. The only important thing is that you help each other through it instead of pushing each other away.

As for the stress to the baby, i don't think the odd rant is going to do any harm but it can be damaging to you if you are in a stressful environment for a long period of time.

Hope you sort things out anyway hun and it is probably just the hormones

 

[twinkle84]

Awww honey, sounds like we all do. Me and my other half had a major row (over in an hour) but at the time i was screaming shouting and crying. This was the wkend before i found out. Was panicing id mc after all the stress, but so far so good. My OH though is stressing me out, every time i get annoyed at him he says 'think about the baby' and that annoys me more and makes me feel guilty for getting mad and upset! xx

 

[Annie050408]

Hi hon, I did lol when I read your first post because I think most of us can relate to having silly rows with our dh's due to hormones. All I'd say is to try to look at the big picture before making any big decisions about your relationship. Dh and I have not argued too much as I explained to him early on that I may be hormonal and to try not to take my rants seriously. I think it is hard for men because they don't read all the info we do on this forum and the changes are not happening to them. I think that unless you don't see the relationship lasting it is important to see these arguements in perspective and to encourage and allow our partners to support us and feel involved. Good luck and remember we all have these feelings of mood swings.

 

[titch]

Hi Hun, sorry to hear youre having a miserable time

When I was first pregnant my OH and I argued so much, I used to come on here and rant. It was definately a combination of my hormones and him feeling stressed about the idea of becoming a dad.

Now things are so much better between us. We havent even had a tiny bicker in weeks. I think it coincides with OH being able to feel the bump and me learning to lean on him when Im stressed. The other night I just curled up next to him on the sofa and said "Im sad" he asked "is there a reason?" and I said no as I cried. He didnt ask any more, just gave me a kiss and cuddle and told me Id feel better soon. I think a few months back I wouldve tried to hold it in and get really stressed out and end up with him thinking somethings wrong but not knowing what....it just spirals out of control that way.

I actually walked out the house for 24 hours when I was 9 weeks pregnant so its a big turn around! I guess Im trying to say that the beginning is really hard for a lot of people, but it does get better

Try and be honest with him and ask him to be honest back. Im sure your baby will be fine too xxx

 

[Natasha+1]

I've noticed since being pregnant everyone is crap at driving! It's either that or I'm bloody impatient lol!

I agree, I get well angry at people who don't stay in their own lanes...

 

[Star*]

Hey hun, hope your okay

Sorry to hear about the stress you are having to go through! I kind of went through the same thing. For the first (id say) 10/11 weeks of my pregnancy me and my OH could NOT get on ATALL. We were always arguing and I felt like he wasnt taking my hormaones/sickness into consideration (like its not my fault I didnt do the dishes, I actually could not get out of bed!!!!!!) BUT he didnt see it like that he just though I was being lazy!. It got to the point were I honestly thought, "why am I having a baby with this man"!!!! My hormones were everyehere!!!

BUT now everything has changed and back to normal (I say normal cause we still argue a bit, but I love him so much) My hormones have stableised and just really enjoying it together!!

Now that the sickness/tiredness/hormones have passed and Im waking up at 7.00am sharp fresh and ready to go and open the curtains, while hes snoring away im like "Now do you realise I wansnt faking it mate, I just actually couldnt get out of bed!! I somethimes think men think we are lying when we talk about hormones!

I promise it will get better, I honestly thought there was no light at the end of the tunnel, but there is.

I also worried about what the stress may have done to my baby, but everything is fine so dont worry, if it happens again just try your hardest to breath for you and your baby and try not to stress.

Hope everything is okay!

 

[titch]

I've noticed since being pregnant everyone is crap at driving! It's either that or I'm bloody impatient lol!

I agree, I get well angry at people who don't stay in their own lanes...

my latest irritation is people using the wrong lanes on roundabouts! Its not hard people!! I get so worked im Ive been tempted to call the traffic police and demand they do something about it!