PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE does any one have any links or no where i can get any info that ctaking its an explain to oh how im feeling at the moment the stress and the worry is toll on me and a moody other half was moan about the internet and the fact that i wanted a shower before i cleaned up the kitchen does not help and iv spent the last half hour in tears and he jus thinks im being silly im angry with me and angry with him and its jus so fustrating that he dont understand he really really thinks that im jus as i am befor i was pregnant jus with morning sickness if only that was all
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oh hunny, ive got myself into some right states over the last few weeks. my OH doesnt have a clue either. no helpful advice really just wanna give u some hugs 
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The first thing I did was make DH read the 'for men' chapter in the NHS book the doctor gave me. It's super-cheesy but it's not coming from you.
Can you talk to his mum/sister at all and ask her to explain how she felt when she was pregnant? Might help coming from somone he listens to (if that's the case) that's not you either...
Sorry I can't think of anything else. Men seem to think all they need to do is supply the wrigglers, then that's job done. Mine is great no, but when we were TTC and I was already off the booze etc. he lept getting drunk, then saying he wasn't in the mood for sex at the right times. Just a bit thoughtless. He realised when I had a few tantrums though - but it did take a few...
Good luck I'm sure you'll feel better soon!
Can you talk to his mum/sister at all and ask her to explain how she felt when she was pregnant? Might help coming from somone he listens to (if that's the case) that's not you either...
Sorry I can't think of anything else. Men seem to think all they need to do is supply the wrigglers, then that's job done. Mine is great no, but when we were TTC and I was already off the booze etc. he lept getting drunk, then saying he wasn't in the mood for sex at the right times. Just a bit thoughtless. He realised when I had a few tantrums though - but it did take a few...
Good luck
I'm sure you'll feel better soon!Jaded Diamond
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we got a book called "from lad to dad" he's not read it yet, but i'm hoping that'll help ifhe eventually does it!!
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Mine would've been from Borders or Waterstones i think. 
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I did the same thing! I also ask Chris a question a day regarding pregnancy, if he can't answer it I look at him with digust then ask him two more questions the day after.
Hope you are feeling better.
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Seconded.
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I was having the same problem with my OH as I didnt think he understood what I was going through so sat him down and just said to him that I was going through a lot and needed him just to grin and bear it. He said the reason he was getting so upset was he just wanted to make me feel better and over come what I was moaning and upset about but there wasnt a solution.. turns out he is just as emotional as me.. sometimes its good to just talk xxxx
