Newbie with a plan (WTT)

[ToffeePop]

Waiting to try to catch in 2010 - just a bit excited (and scared) about it all!

 

[Mervs Mum]

A very warm welcome to the pregnancyforum.co.uk

You have definitely come to the right place! Congrats on setting a date to TTC and lets hope you have a short stay and are moving into 1st Tri before we know it!

 

[ToffeePop]

Sorry I over-edited my post then! OOPS! Sincere apologies (and a dodgy computer...we REALLY need a new one!) about that !

 

[Mamafy]

Welcome to Pregnancy Forum

 

[FebMum2Be]

Hii and welcome Like MervsMum said you have definitly come to the right place xx

 

[Me, My Girls & I]

hiya

 

[mrsH2009]

Hi

 

[ToffeePop]

Hiya again

Thanks for the welcome - sorry my original post went a bit wonky (sums me up, really)

It's really strange - I'm not bouncing around like a lunatic or anything, but had a proper conversation with the husband thing (or as a mate of mine would say, the Male Toy) yesterday and were quite seriously discussing major things regarding having a little one...

... it's just....odd in a good way?

I mean, I know that I have body problems (insides are all a bit nutty, like me to be honest) and never considered having a little one mostly because of , well, various reasons and have always said I wasn't interested to pretty much everyone as I know that it'd be "traumatic" to say the least. But then, after speaking to a friend, she made me realise that it's not plain sailing for anyone and what's the harm in trying?

Good point - and now that the MaleToy wants a baby/child, and actually said "well, why don't we just leave it to chance and see what happens in the New Year" I was a bit and speechless...then we started talking baby names. For about 3 hours!

Have to say, he's very calm about it all. I know that he would just be a wonderful dad, as he is a brilliant husband - he could do so much better but if anyone ever lets that slip I shall be forced to take serious "no I didn't say that" action - so am trying not to think about it as we haven't even started on the no contraception bit yet.

So, lots of info for a newbie - I talk a lot. Sorry. I just can NOT tell anyone that I know in the "real world" about this for so many reasons. I'm already putting obstacles in our way on this as trying to remain realistic - I know so many people who have no fertility issues whatsoever, and can't get pregnant, that for me to say that we're going to even think of trying would just be rude.

I will be asking for a LOT of advice...I can feel it.

Thanks for the welcome - and I'll be sure to be asking for help after I register with my new doctor and have spoken with her about our plans

 

[Tonks]

Welcome to PF hun, and lots of luck in your journey. 2010 isn't too far away now so it must be very exciting for you!

 

[ChloesMummy]

Hiya, lots of luck to you! x

 

[Katy_89]

Hiya xx

 

[Pompey_Princess]

hello and welcome we are planning on trying for number 2 in 2010 so looking forward too seeing you in wtt

 

[ToffeePop]

Thanks all Really looking forward to joining in with it all. I am just so desperate to talk to my friends about it but can't - it's killing me

Will see some of you in WTT then

 

[luvbunsazzle]

hey hey