new and confused

[liloldme]

hi all, im new here.

ill try and make this short.

im 19wks gone, was trying to conceive for 10yrs with no success, in the space of 9month ive had 2 mc. my major problem is, is this, i found out my bf was sex texting other girls, someone sent me a message about was he was doing, we took a little break as i needed to clear my head. i was so depressed(history of depression and a few attempts too) that i ended up sleeping with an ex more than once, this was the 2nd n 4th of feb, the last time i slept with my bf was in beginning of jan. i realised i had made a mistake and that i love my bf too much to lose him. only now after a rocking weekend and him going thru my phone while i was asleep have i realised i could lose him. there was a few steamy texts from a mate basically ended in i was on my way up, im good friends with him and his wife and would never sleep with him. my bf thinks i have and that the baby isnt his. trouble is, is im not sure who is the dad my bf or my ex.

I just feel so lost and confused. ive tried to work the dates out but cant.

so thats me

thanks for reading

 

[SunnySue]

Sorry hun I have no real advice for you as far as dates etc go, just wanted to say i'm sorry you are going through such a hard time at the moment. Best of luck for your pregnancy and hopefully things with your bf will improve soon

 

[Sunshine_1]

The hospital, until your 12 week scan will work out your dates going by the first day of your last period and how long your cycle normally is (do you know that?). If you know this then we might be able to help you work out when you conceived.

I hope we can all help and support you here, sorry to hear your gong through such a rough time, especially at this, the beginning of your pregnancy, when times are so hard anyway.

Welcome to the forums

 

[liloldme]

my last af was on the 6/2 im normally a 34/35day cycle at my 12wk scan they said i was 12wks 4day giving me the due date of 11/11. which if im right in thinking af was there it was a normal af for me, heavy clotty and terrible pain as always. sorry for too much info there. Hope so one can help me out with date.

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Looking at your 19 wks now and going bk by your scan (right at dating) and af, it seems you could have concieved beginning to middle of feb.

Hoping you and bf can get past all this, and no matter wot you and bump are going to be ok.

 

[babyem]

x

 

[Leah04x]

Sorry, I can't offer much advice about the dates! But I hope you manage to get everything sorted.
& We're all here if you need a chat, take care xx