need to vent sum anger......

[Manda&Thomas]

had a really bad dream lastnite woke up with all sorts of stuff going threw my head luckly my bloke was working a bit later so he made me feel a bit better
but the reason i need to vent sum anger is my father
ive lived with him since i was 14 when my mother walked out and hes never been surportive towards me id admit when i was 14-16 i wasnt the best teenager i was into drug heavy and drank so much i wouldnt no where i was half the time
i evenutaly moved into my sisters and cleaned myself up i moved back home when i was 17 and started college.
yet it still wasnt good enough for him ive done everything i can ive had a few slip up but dont we all
im now 21 in feb and ive got a great bloke we are engaged and moving in together soon my father doesnt no any of this although he nose im with arron
it started xmas day i asked my dad if arron could move into my room with me and he said no in a very nasty way
and since then he wont talk to me he give arron dirty looks and refuses to talk to him just generaly being a complete a*sehole
its making living here very hard
well rant over just needed to say all that get it off my chest
manda x

 

[whyslifesobig]

I am sure it is all because he loves you and fears that the relationship is going ahead at full steam, the relationship is not very old to be making life changing moves like moving in and having babies and your dad will know this though hindsight.
You need to open up communication with your dad as this is the best way to get him to trust you, no by going behind his back.
good luck

 

[Manda&Thomas]

thanks hun needed to hear that
manda x

 

[cassi]

i agree maybe sit down and have a proper chat with your dad about how you are feeling..maybe suggest a meal with arron there so your dad can get to know him better

 

[Manda&Thomas]

yer arron wont eat infront of people lol and my dad wont even eat with us!!!
things are even worse at home now my little sister i say little shes 17 has been rucking big time iwth him
just cant wait to get away from it all now its putting alot of stress on me
manda x