need some advice please?

[Sarah&Braydon]

I have been going out with Chris now for 2 months, as some of u know he is in the navy which is hard sometimes i really hate it wen i dont get to see him for like 2 weeks, i know wen he goes away itll be worse, just dont really wanna think bout that,
the thing is that he is so cuddley and in ur face, i know it probably sounds really stupid but if i turn round he is there and i can do anything with out him being more than 5 foot steps away. also he always fiddles with me playing with my hair tickling me etc, am i just feeling annoyed about this coz it has just coz i was single for nealy three yrs or would this bother most people??

 

[mrs_tommo22]

Hiya mate - Your in the honeymoon period at the moment and hes feeling it and your not! im guessing your not becuase you have been on your own for so long with your child and are more rwalistic about relationships - im guessing you have been hurt in the past.

Try and enjoy it Sarah, you will miss it when it all stops, hes just tryin to show you how much he feels for you and you obviously like him loasds as you miss him whe n hes gone.

Just try and enjoy the affection. he sounds lovely

 

[mrs_tommo22]

You have just made me think midna way back to when I was 18. I ws with this guy and he was lovely but like Sarah, i used to get annoyed with him quickly and wasnt always comfortable with him.

Hell Sarah midna may be right and im completely off the scale.

 

[SarahH]

I think he is like this as he is in the Navy.... my hubby is in the TA and whenever he was going away he would get more "in your face" and cuddly, tickly etc.

 

[kalia]

I think you should talk to him about it. I remember when OH and I first moved in together - he followed me around!!! Eventually I cracked and said that I didn't want him following behind me like a puppy! He was very good about it and hadn't realised he was doing that. I should have just spoken to him in the first place as he wasn't offended and it was easily fixed. Looking back it was quite funny as the cat would also follow me so was like the Pied Piper! The cat still follows me though.

 

[Penstraze]

I think you should talk to him he may not even notice what hes doing, explain to him your so used to your own personal space you need time to adjust and alittle more space at times, often when they stop the things you thought were annoying they stop being annoying and you miss them fondly (men cant win!) but as Minda says if hes really annoying you already and talking about it doesnt help perhaps somethings a miss 2 months is quite early on for someone to be annoying you so much, but sounds like you both really like each other and you need to have a chat about it and give him a chance before writting it off completely, if he stops whats annoying you and you find other things about him to be annoyed about then you'll know theres a more serious problem and relationship might not be right!

Alternatively my bloke can get over the top affectionate when he has a problem or feels he has upset me, has he always been like this or more so recently perhaps its his going away making him realise how much he will miss you or something else on his mind again only way to find out is sit down together and have a chat!!

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Try and have a chat with him hun it seems like you both really like eachother maybe he dont realize it ..??
Katrina