Oh my lord you poor poor thing!!!
My brother and my Sister in Law had a placental abruption prior to labour with their first son, which resulted in terrible terrible pain in her stomach... sadly, the midwifes didnt believe she was in labour and didn't monitor him properly... he was born by emergency C section and died 5 days later...
God that sounds morbid I know... you are so very lucky to have such a beautiful son.
Congratulations hunxxx