Kellie80 and Shaz

[lozzi]

just htought id do a post for shaz and kellie 80 today, both wanting ickle boys...


so sending lots of blue dust your way and hoping everything is fine and ur LO's keep there legs open!!

 

[Shaz]

Thanks girlies - bet your bottom dollar I wont' find out though.

Also my friend had her scan and said the scanner wouldn't tell her - she was an older lady and kept saying "you don't want to know, you want a surprise"

Can they actually refuse to tell you?

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Some hospitals wont tell you. Mine (hillingdon) will, but my friends (watford) wouldnt. Coz ull be suprised how many people terminate after getting the sex they dont want. Its to minimise it. Alot of indians do it. They prefer boys and terminate the girls. Not nice!

 

[Jaidy]

GOSH Id never DREAM of doing that how bloody selfish.

People ought to feel blessed they can have children and that their healthy!!

Grrrr that makes me cross.

Good luck today girls have sent you both blue dust in another thread!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

GOSH Id never DREAM of doing that how bloody selfish.

People ought to feel blessed they can have children and that their healthy!!

Grrrr that makes me cross.

Good luck today girls have sent you both blue dust in another thread!

I know, its awful! Sorry if that upset you! It happens..
People like that dont deserve to be parents. Be happy with a healthy baby!
My OH was so mad he didnt talk to me for a day when we found out she was a girl, i said to him what would u prefer? An unhealthy baby boy or a healthy girl? and he said girl, so i said just be f*cking grateful shes healthy then!! It was my 20wk scan where they check heart and brain etc for probs..i was so glad she was okay! He was angry she didnt have a penis! Makes me so mad. But he's grown up a bit now, he doesnt mind what we have this time.
Congrats on ur lil boy btw!

 

[Shaz]

You're kidding - really? does that kind of thing go on?

My god I'm naive.........

 

[Jayceesmumma]

You're kidding - really? does that kind of thing go on?

My god I'm naive.........

Yes, more than people know! Its awful. Thats why they dont tell most people.
Watford is a big area for indian families so they dont tell anyone.

 

[Jaidy]

Oh Jo thats not very nice of OH!!! Im glad he saw sense in the end though, that must of been heart breaking for you when you were pregnant with little Jaycee.

Its ok, I wasnt ranting at you just a min ago....at those indians!!!! So wrong I know it happens but its just so sad and immoral.

Thanks hun for your congrats xxx

 

[Dee1985]

Can they actually refuse to tell you?

no but they dont HAVE to tell you.

YRS BACK THEY WOULDNT TELL WOMAN THE SEX AS ALOT OF THE INDIANS WERE SAID TO BE ABORTING ONCE FINDING OUT THEY WERE GIRLS.

the lady that scanned me was saying "owwww you sure you want to no"

but i was like "yes despo"

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Oh Jo thats not very nice of OH!!! Im glad he saw sense in the end though, that must of been heart breaking for you when you were pregnant with little Jaycee.

Its ok, I wasnt ranting at you just a min ago....at those indians!!!! So wrong I know it happens but its just so sad and immoral.

Thanks hun for your congrats xxx

Yeah it was awful with the hormones etc! He was quite distant after that. Never touched my belly, never done daddy stuff even when she was born. He only done it when she was 1 and a half! Its terrible. He stayed at the pub all night so he didnt have to play with her when he got in. He was a bad alcoholic...obviously lol! But now we are strong and he loves touchng my belly and cnt wait for this one to come to make up for what he missed with Jaycee (he cant but he will try!)
When we was in bed and my bump touched him he'd say get that f*cking lump off me! It was terrible. Im glad he's grown up and sober now.
Its sad for me when i read about everyones OH/DH being so happy and excited and all the silly daddy stuff they do etc.. i hope i get it this time round!
(sorry..got carried away )

 

[Jaidy]

Oh hunny I really had no idea it was so bad....

I really hope he comes to his senses with this new LO of yours, cos you, Jaycee and your baby deserve it so much xxx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Oh hunny I really had no idea it was so bad....

I really hope he comes to his senses with this new LO of yours, cos you, Jaycee and your baby deserve it so much xxx

Aww thanks hun! Made me smile!

 

[lozzi]

my ex has decided he wants a boy and so my baby is a boy, i really want it to be a girl now jjust to spite him...


this coming from the bloke who said after my first bleed when i phone him after the scna "i was really hoping youd lost it"

men i cud kil them all, cept my nephew and me dad, the rest nede shooting!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

my ex has decided he wants a boy and so my baby is a boy, i really want it to be a girl now jjust to spite him...


this coming from the bloke who said after my first bleed when i phone him after the scna "i was really hoping youd lost it"

men i cud kil them all, cept my nephew and me dad, the rest nede shooting!

OMG that is pure evil!! He sounds like he needs a good kick up the ass!!
Thats terrible honey!!

 

[Jaidy]

She deserves so much better, but then she knows I think that!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

It sounds like it too!! Gosh i hope u have a boy to save the trouble i went thru!